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Akers2 (original poster new member #39597) posted at 4:22 AM on Sunday, June 23rd, 2013
Tonight I found out while I was in Ohio with my broken heart, trying to take care of me and my pregnancy...that son of a BITCH kept her dog while she went out of town. Everyday Im finding out what a selfish prick I married. He let her dog into our home...it's like he let a part of "her" into our freaking home. Why can't these ass holes just be honest..instead of letting our hearts break more every time we find something new. AAAAAAHHH...I just want to punch him, not love him. He doesn't deserve it.
MylarPineapples ( member #39570) posted at 4:56 AM on Sunday, June 23rd, 2013
I'm sorry, that really sucks. I understand what you mean about learning new information - I so wish they would just tell everything there is to know, all at once, like ripping off a Band-Aid. I think that would be so much better than being blind-sided by new betrayals over and over again. (((hugs)))
Me: BS, Him: WH
8/08: EA with former neighbor (OW#1)
1/13/13: EA/Sexting with Coworker#1 (OW#2)
6/16/13: Sexting with Coworker#2 (OW#3)
Reconciling
stunnedin12 ( member #38141) posted at 2:05 PM on Sunday, June 23rd, 2013
I hear you. That's really rotten of your wh.
I would have rather had 10 hours of gut-wrenching truth last year than to still be getting bits and pieces as early as yesterday.
ME - Betrayed Spouse
Him - Wayward spouse
Lawyers involved.
1Faith ( member #38975) posted at 2:15 PM on Sunday, June 23rd, 2013
It's called trickle truth. They want to cover their asses as much as possible.
Sure, they'll say so they don't want to inflict any additional pain but it really is to minimize their horrid choices and hopefully preventing themselves from looking like even more of a jerk.
(((Gently)))
If her dog was in your house I can guarantee so was she.
It's sickening I know.
Stay strong. We are here for you.
Sometimes my life feels like a test I didn't study for
Skan ( member #35812) posted at 3:24 PM on Sunday, June 23rd, 2013
^^^ Agreed. If the dog was in the house, the bitch was as well. I'm truly afraid that you have yet more TT coming your way.
Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.
D-Day, June 10, 2012
WoundedOpus ( member #39521) posted at 4:44 PM on Sunday, June 23rd, 2013
I agree, hours or days of awful truths are by far better than finding things out little by little over months (or years)! Every time it's like finding out for the first time all over again :(
So sorry (((Akers2))) none of us deserve this.
I found out weeks later that he had given her the web address where I posted all of our family photos 
oh man, I've never felt so violated. He gave her a window into my life...I will NEVER be able to look at those photos the same way again :(
Me: BW 37
Him: WH 38
(DDay: 2/2008)
13 years, 5 kids...Seven years of Limbo
“I don't want to get to the end of my life and find that I have just lived the length of it. I want to have lived the width of it as well." ~ Diane Ackerman
WoundedOpus ( member #39521) posted at 4:45 PM on Sunday, June 23rd, 2013
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Me: BW 37
Him: WH 38
(DDay: 2/2008)
13 years, 5 kids...Seven years of Limbo
“I don't want to get to the end of my life and find that I have just lived the length of it. I want to have lived the width of it as well." ~ Diane Ackerman
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