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Divorce/Separation :
How do I deal with my ex husbands fiance?????

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summerain ( member #37439) posted at 7:09 AM on Saturday, August 3rd, 2013

I read this about three times so I completely 'got this'.

I think that you need to be professional with your ex husband and new gf. She seems like she is trying very very hard to get along with you.

You come across really needy and I believe there WOULD be a reason for you to be seeing your kids 'every other week'. I'm not sure how the court system works in America but at least in my state in Australia it's almost impossible not to get 50/50. If that's what a parent decides.

I also am wondering why you on an infidelity forum when you were trying to be the other woman and clearly have no remorse.

I think counselling may be helpful for you and an extension your children's lives.

[This message edited by lauren123 at 1:18 AM, August 3rd (Saturday)]

OW1 inadvertently let me know WH loves English breakfast tea. Never ever saw him drink it. And I never will.

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hummingbird8 ( member #25086) posted at 9:26 AM on Saturday, August 3rd, 2013

What was the text to her about when you had the kids?

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homewrecked2011 ( member #34678) posted at 6:32 AM on Monday, August 5th, 2013

The next time you text her, stick to business only. If she flips out, then save that text. You want to look good to a judge if you try to get your children more.

It would bother me, too if they call her Mom. I think what happened is you were trying to be nice, let him have the kids, now he has them all the time, and the OW flips out over everything and changed up the story of what was said.

When you get about 50. go to walmart and get a voice activated recorder to record any conversations with OW and XH.

Sometimes He calms the storm. Sometimes He lets the storm rage, but calms His child. Dday 12/19/11I went to an attorney and had him served. Shocked the hell out of him, with D papers, I'm proud to say!D final10/30/2012Me-55

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