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OnceInALifetime (original poster member #26023) posted at 3:34 AM on Thursday, June 27th, 2013
Yeah, I'm not comfortable getting into the specifics of why I was not physically attracted. Somehow feels disrespectful, when she was attracted to me.
Dreamboat ( member #10506) posted at 4:39 AM on Thursday, June 27th, 2013
Yeah, I'm not comfortable getting into the specifics of why I was not physically attracted. Somehow feels disrespectful, when she was attracted to me.
Maybe she was just being nice and acting like she was attracted.
And it's hard to dance with a devil on your back
So shake him off
-- Shake It Out, Florence And The Machine
OnceInALifetime (original poster member #26023) posted at 4:53 AM on Thursday, June 27th, 2013
She messaged me right away after the date, wanting to get together again soon, so yeah, she was attracted.
It's water under the bridge now. She responded gracefully to my saying I didn't feel a match. So much better to rip the bandaid off quick than to take someone on a pity ride.
[This message edited by OnceInALifetime at 10:54 PM, June 26th (Wednesday)]
persevere ( member #31468) posted at 5:04 AM on Thursday, June 27th, 2013
So, are you (not) saying that she was overweight?
I'm curious about this too. No 2x4's - just curious.
I'm not "fit" but not way overweight. If I lose 10 I'm in great shape esp for my height. But I don't have any body shots on my profile.
Eta: I don't think it's disrespectful to be honest if you are expecting honest feedback. It only helps in the end. Just my thought.
[This message edited by persevere at 11:18 PM, June 26th (Wednesday)]
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