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SeanFLA (original poster member #32380) posted at 2:19 PM on Wednesday, June 26th, 2013
...with my son for the day visiting the sights. Being single for a while you can't help but notice all the great looking women walking around, especially on lunch hour!
I used to work in NY when I was younger and now have been working alone independently by myself for the last ten years or so. It made me realize how many potential women are out there. Thinking I need a new job back out there for the social aspect alone. 
BS(me) 53
WW 52
1 son 20 yrs old
Married 18 yrs, together 21 yrs
"You never know how strong you are until being strong is the only choice you have." ~ Bob Marley
TattoodChinaDoll ( member #34602) posted at 2:44 PM on Wednesday, June 26th, 2013
I find myself "appreciating" more, too. For me I think it's even of a sign of detachment. Before I wouldn't even think of looking at another man...and not in some righteous way. But because I really had no interest and because I thought Jerkface was all I needed and I was happy. Though I feel like I'm at a weird age and point in my life. If I appreciate a younger guy I feel like a dirty old lady and if I see a good looking older man I get that scene from Big Daddy in my head...ya know..."old balls."
ETA: If you are close to the city/NJ, go down to F&G and take a look at the NJ g2g in August. If you can come just post for me to put you on the PM list.
[This message edited by TattoodChinaDoll at 8:50 AM, June 26th (Wednesday)]
Me: 35
WH: 37 TimeToManUp
Married: 14 years, together 19 years
3 daughters: 12, 8, 6, and 2 angel babies (2013 and 2014)
D-Day: 12/21/2011
Confronted him: 12/22/2011
This is the most difficult thing I've ever done.
Kajem ( member #36134) posted at 5:23 PM on Thursday, June 27th, 2013
I've been working from home while my kids were growing. Now I find myself on the verge of an empty nest and unemployed. So I am looking for something in the real world - 
Good luck tcd and sean and anyone else looking for work.
K
I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - UnknownRelationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.
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