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Dark Inertia ( member #30727) posted at 10:45 PM on Saturday, June 29th, 2013
If you don't like him, and he bores you, and he is aggressive and potentially violent... why do you continue to engage with him?
Gr8Lady ( member #36307) posted at 11:02 PM on Saturday, June 29th, 2013
I understand. I do hope you feel better. Sincerely. This is hard for bystanders to understand, particularly when the Es is telling you one thing and behaving differently. On many levels we want to believe them, even it may be absurd.
Hang in there and be strong
BS: Me (70yo)FWH: HIM (72 yo)) serial infidelities over past 35 years
DD: Multiple unconfirmed until 2013
friends wife lasting 10 years. TT over a
year a year. Now his health is declining,
among the lack of communication.
HURTAGAIN1981 (original poster member #35178) posted at 2:48 PM on Sunday, June 30th, 2013
Gr8lady,
That's exactly it. I think I was still hoping for some kind of mmiracle to happen and that he would be able to be who thought he once was. It's so hard to get through to my head.
Now that it is over for good, it makes me incredibly sad. Even though he now disgusts me. I can't make sense of it. Now he knows that there is no way back after all I said to him and all I know he will no longer bother contacting me. He will just cut me off like I never existed because he never cared about me anyway. That makes me sad.
LearningToFly ( member #39073) posted at 6:12 PM on Sunday, June 30th, 2013
Hurt,
You are better off if he cuts you off completely. He is dangerous and you DONT want him in your life. If he forgets you, you are far better off. It has nothing to do with you or your worth, it has to do with him and he is not someone you will be safe with in your life.
Me - BS (53) Him-WS(58)
Her OW(55) HighSchoolGirlfriend
Together 30 years Married 28 Kids 24,21,18
D day Feb 26 2013 after 20 months
D day March 4 they met again "to say goodbye"
D day April 2 found out about secret email
June 2017 F
BrighterFuture ( member #38914) posted at 12:42 AM on Monday, July 1st, 2013
I hope you're now done with him completely. I was afraid that your silence meant that you were still in contact with him. I hate that I was right!
Me:30
Him:31
D-day:2/24/13 (I was 10 weeks pregnant at the time and DS was 15 months)
Status: Parted ways!
"If only I can fight just a little longer, I know it's gonna make me stronger" Jamie Grace-Holding on.
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