I am having a very hard time grasping what kind of person has an almost 4 year affair, all the while declaring his undying love for his spouse, just the other night he said that that part of his behavior was done.
What kind of person is having that 4 year affair, taking 3 trips to Mexico with his wife and making future plans.
What kind of person, who for our whole marriage did absolutely everything for his kids and loves them so, would have a 4 year affair and know they could find out?
What kind of person, seeing his wife agonized and in pain, loose way too much weight and become so distrustful, have a 4 year affair?
And one last thing, what kind of woman has a 4 year affair with a man, knowing he's going on these trips with his wife, doing family things.
I just can't wrap my brain around it.
