demos - I appreciate the question but no...it's more than the fact that he found someone else.
It's the fact that I found out after he asked me to leave that the reason behind him doing so was that he's had someone else. That all the while he was telling me he wasn't interested in sex he was telling me it was him and not me...that he didn't want to be with anyone else, he hadn't been with anyone else and that he just wasn't interested. He was telling me he was stressed and the longer we went without the more stressed he was about being able to perform when he did want to try...
It's the fact that gee we probably hadn't been much of a couple because he was busy coupling with someone else. Could that be why I was getting ducks in a row? Because I was tired of being ignored, left out, belittled, yelled at and blamed for every damn little thing.
He asked me to move 4 days after I got back from vacation(7 uninterrupted days with her in our home?)...I found out a week later there was another woman and she's been around awhile. I've suspected previously but never found anything...
Sorry but he was telling me one thing and obviously doing another and I was wary of it...so it's not the fact that he found someone else - it's the fact that he started something with someone else while still telling me he loved me, cared for me and I was the best thing to ever happen to him.
If I sound a little pissy - well I am...think about it.
