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Skan (original poster member #35812) posted at 9:20 PM on Friday, July 5th, 2013
Literally. Well, it's a wood laminate, but it's that snap together flooring. We're redoing the office over the weekend and eventually, will redo our hallway, guest room, and the dining room. Looking good too. Taking a short chips, dip, and soft drink break right now.
I'm amazed at how easily it's going. Almost like we can read each other's minds. And how easily we're working together. Two weeks ago, I had just come back home from leaving for three days after finding his porn stash (ironically, in the same room that we're redoing). And today, peace, harmony, and chips & dip!
Life can be a funny old thing, can't it? OK, break over, back to pergo-tory!
Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.
D-Day, June 10, 2012
musiclovingmom ( member #38207) posted at 10:43 PM on Friday, July 5th, 2013
Glad things are going well. I was so hopeful for you when you posted about the shredder and this post made me smile.
unforgivable5 ( member #38797) posted at 11:58 PM on Friday, July 5th, 2013
Good for you Skan. Best place to start rebuilding is from the ground up.
Mrs Panda ( member #27303) posted at 12:37 AM on Saturday, July 6th, 2013
Happy to hear things are better. 
Me-48 FWW Him 51BH
M 20 years,. Fully Reconciled ❤️.
DDay#1 Nov 2008
DDay#2 Aug 2009 (Prior A from 2001)
"Those who believe in telekinetics, raise my hand." -Kurt Vonnegut
Searchingforhope ( member #38437) posted at 5:51 PM on Saturday, July 6th, 2013
Skan...That is good to read.
We have Pergo throughout our house. I love it..it's indestructible..A word I hope will describe our M and the M of those who are also in R.
Take care.
Me: BW 51 at the time(didn't have a clue)
Him: FWH 54 at the time(extremely remorseful about his stupid midlife crisis)
Married 27 yrs at the time
DDAY 04/25/12
Working on R
PA Lasted 2 weeks. OW totally screwed up $@#%.
OnAnIsland ( member #34319) posted at 9:53 PM on Saturday, July 6th, 2013
Glad to hear things are going better and you are clicking. Thinking of you.
D-day: Christmas 2011
D-day 2: 3/28/2013
Married for over 15 years
2 beautiful sons
You may not control all the events that happen to you, but you can decide not to be reduced by them. Maya Angelou
authenticnow ( member #16024) posted at 10:11 PM on Saturday, July 6th, 2013
I love all the metaphors in this thread .
DS, you are forever in my heart. Thank you for sharing your beautiful spirit with me. I will always try to live by the example you have set. I love you and miss you every day and am sorry you had to go so soon, it just doesn't seem fair.
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