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roughroadahead (original poster member #36060) posted at 4:08 AM on Monday, July 8th, 2013
My stbx SIL and BIL are still my fb friends. It is waffle's brother and his wife. They live in Canada, so they don't tell me anything about him or really even talk directly to me. We just "like" each other's kid pics.
Anyway, a friend of SIL's from the US somewhere posts to her wall about a show she was watching with a really arrogant jerky Canadian in it. She went on to joke that Canada must deport all its assholes.
SIL responds "Yes. All jerks are deported to (state waffle and I live in)"
Really winning your family over, dude.
BS-Me 30s
WS-Him 30s
D-Day 4/2012 (Insisted EA only)
D-Day 5/2012 (Did I say EA? Ummm..)
Numerous other TT/broken NC d-days until S 1/2013. D settled 11/2013
MOW-coworker, 40s.
2 DS and DD all w/autism
nowiknow23 ( member #33226) posted at 5:10 AM on Monday, July 8th, 2013
You can call me NIK
And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane
peridot ( member #18334) posted at 8:13 AM on Monday, July 8th, 2013
Lmao!!! 
I think...therefore, I'm single.
It is what it is.
haysuth01 ( member #29161) posted at 2:57 PM on Monday, July 8th, 2013
My XSIL is my best friend. XMIL and I have become super close as well. XH doesn't care but it royally pisses off Wifetress.
All the more reason! 
Ashland13 ( member #38378) posted at 4:09 PM on Monday, July 8th, 2013
Some of my heartfelt supporters are SIL and BIL.
To my delight, this greatly annoyed STBX. 
, especially when each told him that they would not ever ditch me, just because he did.
One refuses to ever meet OW as well, though I don't know if they'll be able to accomplish that.
Support of IL's means a lot, doesn't it? FWIW, I find the most supportive ones are the ones that know the whole truth and nothing but the truth-the ones I got to before he did to tell the story, so they know reality.
The ones he got to snub me.
Ashland 13
A person is a person, no matter how small. -Dr. Suess
Perserverance and spirit have done wonders in all ages.
-George Washington
roughroadahead (original poster member #36060) posted at 4:45 PM on Monday, July 8th, 2013
His family won't ever ditch him. They'll be polite when he's there no doubt, but they probably just talk about him behind his back. That's the way his family works. Rugsweepers.
MIL talks to me like nothing happened. I think she, at least in part, buys the story that his M was so intolerable, he just had to have an A.
He refuses to believe that they are upset with him. We had that "discussion" in the immediate aftermath of S.
BS-Me 30s
WS-Him 30s
D-Day 4/2012 (Insisted EA only)
D-Day 5/2012 (Did I say EA? Ummm..)
Numerous other TT/broken NC d-days until S 1/2013. D settled 11/2013
MOW-coworker, 40s.
2 DS and DD all w/autism
TrustGone ( member #36654) posted at 5:01 PM on Monday, July 8th, 2013
During my D from XWH#1, my BIL and SIL were there for me. My ex's brother was closer to me than his own brother. They have not spoken since my D began and BIL sat at all my court appearances with me. He knew I was telling the truth and XWH#1 was a liar and a cheater. MIL and FIL took XWH#1's side. Now MIL is trying to get back in good with me because he also screwed them around while he lived off them. Anyway it was their loss for siding with a lying lazy cheater. She has since made up with BIL, and SIL and BIL divorced, so I no longer see her as she moved away after their D. I am still close to my BIL and always will be. He had my back when no ne else did and I will always be graeful to him for that. He is what I consider a real brother in my life and he calls me Sis.
XWH#2-No longer my monkey Divorced 8/15, Now married to a wonderful man.
"A person is either an asset or a lesson"
"Changing who you are with does not change who you are"
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