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IrishLass518 (original poster member #34373) posted at 11:25 PM on Monday, July 8th, 2013
Soooooo, on July 3rd I finally blocked xWH and OWifetress on FB. They weren't my Friends but Friends with our kids and other family members and I could see the things that they posted in comments. Really, nothing useful and I realize that anything they were saying or alluding too about me or the kids ultimately reflects bad on them and only them. Today I got the notice in the mail that my Bankruptcy was discharged on July 3rd. 
Apparently, I knew it was time to move forward emotionally and financially and it happened on the same day.
Now, I am in control of my future and finances and no one can take that away from me unless I allow it. 
Me: 46 BS Divorced
Him: 45 Married OW
DDay: 07/04/2008
Divorced: 06/15/2011
5 kids: IrishLass 27,IrishLad 25, IrishLass 23, IrishLad 21 and IrishLad 12
"You can't run from trouble..there ain't no place that far"
Chrysalis123 ( member #27148) posted at 11:28 PM on Monday, July 8th, 2013
Someone I once loved gave me/ a box full of darkness/ It took me years to understand/ That this, too, was a gift. - Mary Oliver
Just for the record darling, not all positive changes feel positive in the beginning -S C Lourie
Kajem ( member #36134) posted at 11:36 PM on Monday, July 8th, 2013
I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - UnknownRelationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.
cass ( member #24261) posted at 12:38 AM on Tuesday, July 9th, 2013
DDay - April 2008
Me - 58 and doing great, alone.
Don't put the key to your happiness in someone else's pocket!
nutmegkitty ( member #33882) posted at 2:36 PM on Tuesday, July 9th, 2013
Me - happy!
2 DDs
Very happily divorced from an NPD since 2013.
nowiknow23 ( member #33226) posted at 4:09 PM on Tuesday, July 9th, 2013
Yay!
You can call me NIK
And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane
fraeuken ( member #30742) posted at 4:14 PM on Tuesday, July 9th, 2013
Yay, all blocked here too. Feels good. Keep moving forward.
Temporarily independent with the whole world at my feet.
IrishLass518 (original poster member #34373) posted at 8:56 PM on Tuesday, July 9th, 2013
Thanks guys and gals and it does feel good. I am sooooo excited about my future for ME and my IrishLad
I can now rebuild MY credit and find just the right car, land and home for me and my boy. I get to decide what furniture and decorations. I get to decide when and where we travel. I get to be ME and that is a huge gift to myself. I told another SI er this morning, "Get YOU back first and then decide if you want HIM/HER back." I am finally here, I am back and I like ME
Me: 46 BS Divorced
Him: 45 Married OW
DDay: 07/04/2008
Divorced: 06/15/2011
5 kids: IrishLass 27,IrishLad 25, IrishLass 23, IrishLad 21 and IrishLad 12
"You can't run from trouble..there ain't no place that far"
lostmommy ( member #33440) posted at 6:58 PM on Wednesday, July 10th, 2013
Me (BS): 32, Mommy to J: 2 1/2 Divorced: 4/10/13
Sometimes you find yourself in the middle of nowhere, and sometimes, in the middle of nowhere, you find yourself
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