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Boy, have I been put through the ringer this afternoon. I went to the apt office today to let them no that I don't want him on the new lease that begins in August. Guess what?! He has already signed it. I am so screwed and pissed off. The only way to get his name off the lease is for him to sign a statement saying that he agrees to remove his name from the lease.....I have mentioned It before and it still makes no sense to me.

So I called an attorney friend that I know and talked to her about this and sadly, this is absolutely correct. So my only option is to move out by the end of August. I love my apartment and feel very safe there. I can't believe that he did this after I confronted him about cheating yesterday. What makes him think that I still want to live with him? Delusional

Tonight he was blowing up my phone with calls and text messages. I finally decided to call him back and got a bunch of crap spewed in my ear......who have you been talking to? Where are you? I have been calling to see if you are ok? Perfectly fine, says I , lol. You need to take this spy shit off my phone or I am going to smash the motherfucker .....do what you have to do, says I. It doesn't matter what you saw on my phone, you shouldn't have been snooping.....you shouldn't have been planning to stick your dick in someone else says I, I said it doesn't matter what you saw on my phone ......crickets says I.

Crackerjack hotel, room 124, bring sex toys, lube and prepare to be fucked he sent to OW. Celticlass, how could you think I was going to get a room? Read the print out of the text messages that I sent you, dipshit. Really?

Rant over, as I was saying, now I have to move out because there is no way he is going to sign that statement. I want to try to find a place this weekend and move out ASAP...as in this weekend. I don't want to leave him alone with all my furniture (he moved in with me so everything in the apartment is mine) when I go to work. I also asked the attorney if I am obligated to leave the power hooked up when I go (it was 106 degrees here today) enjoy your apartment, fucker.....no electricity, no cable/Internet , very little furniture, ha!

As you can see, I have had a perfectly fabulous day,. I'm glad it's almost bedtime, nothing bad can happen to you when you're sleeping, right?

Big, big hugs to you.

Find yourself a fab place that's all your own. You can do it.

((Hugs)) Celticlass!! You sound so strong, find yourself a place that is all yours. Give yourself the space and time to heal.

I don't know if you have an Iphone, but I took the option off my phone to be included in a search. A couple of months ago, I changed my phone numbers as I did not want to receive his texts or calls anymore. It was a pain in the butt, but has given me so much relief. I also blocked his emails, so the only way he can communicate with me is through the attorneys or snail mail. There has been no communication outside of sending me health insurance cards. It has given me much needed peace.

I hope he enjoys his stifling hot, empty apartment with no cable!! Sorry, they get what they have coming to them.....

Yeah, he is not going to be happy about that ! But very soon I will have a fabulous apt (anywhere will be fabulous because he won't be in it)

My stuff is almost out of my apt, I am so lucky to have a couple of good friends who have driven an hour and a half to spend the weekend sweating our asses off in 103degree weather to pack up my stuff! God bless them!

When I slam the door shut on the uhaul for the final time, I'm changing my phone number! Can't wait!