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cancuncrushed (original poster member #28156) posted at 10:01 PM on Monday, July 15th, 2013
H and I were having a discussion about some financial plans, things I considered private. He decided we should contact his parents, and share their thoughts on these matters. I commented that I felt these were private matters, and I didnt care to discuss it with other people. H is 54 yrs old. His response was, They are family. I could never lie to my family .I want to share all my feelings and joy with my family. I could never ever be dishonest with them. I could never hide things from them. I dont like secrets. I want them to know everything about us. I love them..........Yep. It hit the fan. And it was loud. Pointed out every secret and lie he has told me. ANd added everything I had issues with. Every hurt. My opinions. I believe my head may have rotated. He was actually embarrassed when I finished. FOr having said something so stupid.
Skan ( member #35812) posted at 10:39 PM on Monday, July 15th, 2013
Good for you! Way to stand on your back feet and burst that self-righteous bubble!
Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.
D-Day, June 10, 2012
RidingHealingRd ( member #33867) posted at 12:30 AM on Tuesday, July 16th, 2013
Their stupidity is Infuriating at times.
I applaud you for not holding back.
ME: 60 BS
HIM: 67 WH
Married: 35 years
D'Day: 10/29/10
in R 10 years and it's working but he is putting 200% into it (as he should) to make it right again.
The truth hurts, but I have never seen it cause the pain that lies do.
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