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Williesmom (original poster member #22870) posted at 9:31 PM on Friday, July 19th, 2013
This morning, I got a call from Citibank.
They are looking for wxh, so that can "help" him get his account paid-and he's not responding to any of their attempted contact.
So, I "helped" them by giving them his cell number, and his parents phone number. Always glad to help!
You can stuff your sorries in a sack, mister. -George Costanza
There is a special place in hell for women who don't help other women. - Madeleine Albright
lieshurt ( member #14003) posted at 9:35 PM on Friday, July 19th, 2013
No one changes unless they want to. Not if you beg them. Not if you shame them. Not if you use reason, emotion, or tough love. There is only one thing that makes someone change: their own realization that they need to.
Catwoman ( member #1330) posted at 9:41 PM on Friday, July 19th, 2013
I used to give them the OW's number.
Cat
FBS: Married 20 years, 2 daughters 27 and 24. Divorced by the grace of GOD.
D-Days: 2/23/93; 10/11/97; 3/5/03
Ex & OW Broke up 12-10
"An erection does not count as personal growth."
tesla ( member #34697) posted at 9:42 PM on Friday, July 19th, 2013
Wow, karma bus is putting on the miles today! 
"Thou art the son and heir of a mongrel bitch." --King Lear
ajsmom ( member #17460) posted at 9:43 PM on Friday, July 19th, 2013
Oh, yeah.
I load them up.
His cell.
His work number. Their company address.
His parent's number and home address.
Sparkle Pantie's name, address (which is actually his - surprise, surprise) and her home phone number.
Yep.
I feel it's my civic duty.
AJ's MOM
Fidelity isn't a feeling...it's a choice.
"Truth has no special time of its own. Its hour is now - always." - Albert Schweitzer
____________________________________________
Me: BW - Him: 200+ # tumor removed 7/09
One AMAZING DS - 34
She11ybeanz ( member #27457) posted at 9:49 PM on Friday, July 19th, 2013
I feel it's my civic duty.
"Sometimes your knight in shining armor ...is just a douchebag in tin foil!!"
ME - BW - 35
HIM - XWH - 39
D day: November 15th, 2009
Married: 5 Years, together 8
Divorced: December 13th, 2010
New Beginning: Piper/8-3-12
cass ( member #24261) posted at 9:58 PM on Friday, July 19th, 2013
DDay - April 2008
Me - 58 and doing great, alone.
Don't put the key to your happiness in someone else's pocket!
gma56 ( member #19595) posted at 10:05 PM on Friday, July 19th, 2013
I haven't had any calls since I moved from the marital house but I also gave his recent number and address every chance I could.
It is our civic duty as AJsMom said !
BW-Divorced
It's my life now, my choices, my mistakes to make and my victories to celebrate. His choices made me free of liars and betrayers in my life. That is priceless.
hexed ( member #19258) posted at 10:24 PM on Friday, July 19th, 2013
But that's just a lot of water
Underneath a bridge I burned
And there's no use in backtracking
Around corners I have turned
“Many of us crucify ourselves between two thieves - regret for the past and fear of the future.” -foulton oursler
FaithFool ( member #20150) posted at 2:20 AM on Saturday, July 20th, 2013
It's Karma Week!
DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire
cayc ( member #21964) posted at 4:07 AM on Saturday, July 20th, 2013
Heh. That's awesome 
Sad in AZ ( member #24239) posted at 4:26 AM on Saturday, July 20th, 2013
You only did what was right
You are important and you matter. Your feelings matter. Your voice matters. Your story matters. Your life matters. Always.
Me: FBS (no longer betrayed nor a spouse)-63
D-day: 2007 (two years before finding SI)
S: 6/2010; D: 3/2011
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