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JanaGreen (original poster member #29341) posted at 1:53 PM on Friday, July 26th, 2013
My H got shitfaced while out of town and went along with his "friend's" bright idea to order up some escorts. Received unsuccessful (he was too drunk) oral from a hooker. Awesome. I found out two weeks later.
July 26, 2009 was also the due date of the baby I miscarried in January 2009, and the birthday of our dog, who passed away two days after I found out that I was pregnant with the baby I lost.
So July 26 can suck it!
AFrayedKnot ( member #36622) posted at 1:56 PM on Friday, July 26th, 2013
BS 48fWS 44 (SurprisinglyOkay)DsD DSA whole bunch of shit that got a lot worse before it got better."Knowing is half the battle"
sisoon ( Moderator #31240) posted at 3:22 PM on Friday, July 26th, 2013
fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex apDDay - 12/22/2010Recover'd and R'edYou don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.
Lalagirl ( member #14576) posted at 3:24 PM on Friday, July 26th, 2013
2025: Me-59 FWH-61 Married 41 years grown daughters- 41 & 37. 1 GS,11yo GD & 9yo GD (DD40); Five grands ages 15 to 8. D-day #1-1/06; D-day #2-3/07 Reconciled! Construction Complete. Astra inclinant, sed non obligant
HeartInADustpan ( member #38341) posted at 3:33 PM on Friday, July 26th, 2013
(((Jana)))
Hang in there.
Just call me Heart. :)
Reconciling
"If you tell the truth, you don't have to remember anything" ~Mark Twain
JanaGreen (original poster member #29341) posted at 3:38 PM on Friday, July 26th, 2013
I'm doing fine 
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I had a moment earlier . . . my husband's little "friend" from college (I am 1000% sure that nothing happened physically between them, but I didn't appreciate him talking to her behind my back) had posted something on facebook asking what to do in Atlanta with one child-free day, and someone posted a reply to her suggesting to go to a Braves game.
So we're going to the beach next week, Sunday-to-Sunday rental. My H called and asked if I thought it would be fun to go ahead and leave tomorrow and catch a Braves game on the way down.
Trigger trigger trigger! I immediately jumped to, he's spoken with her and knows she's going to be there, and that's why he wants to go. I mentioned that to him and he said that he had no idea that she posted that, he doesn't go on her page, and he would rather just get rid of Facebook altogether, and suggested that maybe I could run his business page and he could just delete it? Good response.
Later I went on her page and saw that she's not going to even be going anytime soon (she had responded that it won't be during baseball season) so it was really just me being paranoid. Fuck this date.
[This message edited by JanaGreen at 9:39 AM, July 26th (Friday)]
jo2love ( member #31528) posted at 3:59 PM on Friday, July 26th, 2013
HardenMyHeart ( member #15902) posted at 5:07 PM on Friday, July 26th, 2013
Me: BH, Her: WW, Married 40 years, Reconciled
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