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Reconciliation :
he went out last night

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 rachelc (original poster member #30314) posted at 2:07 PM on Tuesday, August 6th, 2013

and I was happy for him!! Went with two guys he lifts with - they both actually work with me!

He invited me along. I declined and said let's just try this - we agreed on an hour and 15 minutes. He was home on the dot and all was good.

He saw one of our daughter's friends (a guy) there and took a picture with him and sent it to us.

Wow, we've come a long way.

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itainteasy ( member #31094) posted at 2:18 PM on Tuesday, August 6th, 2013

That's great!

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Knowing ( member #37044) posted at 3:22 PM on Tuesday, August 6th, 2013

Sent you a picture? With a witness? Oh, he's doing it right!

Congrats to you. Baby steps.

BW, R last 4 years of marriage out of 15... FINALLY, HAPPILY DIVORCING!

We are in R.

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musiclovingmom ( member #38207) posted at 3:30 PM on Tuesday, August 6th, 2013

Awesome! It feels so good for that to happen.

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lordhasaplan? ( member #30079) posted at 6:39 PM on Tuesday, August 6th, 2013

Good positive steps toward trust.

BS- Me (45)D-day: 5/18/10, lies and TT till (11/26/10). Currently in R.Don't carry others crap. It's your job to fix yourself, not your spouse.

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sisoon ( Moderator #31240) posted at 7:03 PM on Tuesday, August 6th, 2013

Great!

fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex apDDay - 12/22/2010Recover'd and R'edYou don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.

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crazyblindsided ( member #35215) posted at 7:48 PM on Tuesday, August 6th, 2013

That is wonderful!

fBS/fWS(me):52 Mad-hattered after DD (2008)
XWS:55 Serial Cheater, Diagnosed NPD
DD(22) DS(19)
XWS cheated the entire M spanning 19 years
Discovered D-Days 2006,2008,2012, False R 2014
Separated 9/2019; Divorced 8/2024

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jo2love ( member #31528) posted at 8:13 PM on Tuesday, August 6th, 2013

Wonderful update!

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