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gma56 (original poster member #19595) posted at 5:47 PM on Thursday, August 8th, 2013
Edited to add: And Susi already knows
She does know but I would love to have that conversation with her. Knowing her, she would be on the phone with CW and saying how proud she of him for fighting to get back to life again. 
Yep, that is exactly what she would do. And he made a good choice by calling me. 
BW-Divorced
It's my life now, my choices, my mistakes to make and my victories to celebrate. His choices made me free of liars and betrayers in my life. That is priceless.
better4me ( member #30341) posted at 6:00 PM on Thursday, August 8th, 2013
DDay 11/17/2010 BW:58
Happily remarried!
Jen ( member #26584) posted at 12:19 AM on Friday, August 9th, 2013
sheesh bout time ... enjoy yourselves ... 
Me former Booger Bear ...
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NaiveAgain ( member #20849) posted at 12:42 AM on Friday, August 9th, 2013
Original WS D-Day July 10, 2008. Kept lying, he is gone.
New WS (2 EA's, no PA) 12-3-13
If you don't like where you are, then change it. You are not a tree.
need_hope ( member #23989) posted at 12:59 AM on Friday, August 9th, 2013
Me - happily engaged to a wonderful man
XWS - no longer matters
Tact is for people who aren't witty enough to be sarcastic.
Don't fuck with me, I fuck back.
foxglove ( member #21791) posted at 1:00 AM on Friday, August 9th, 2013
Great news! It could not have happened to a more deserving person.
(((gma)))
Me (BS) 57
XH (WS)
Married 21 years
Divorced 2/19/07
Two grown sons
Remarried 9/18
exhausted lady ( member #30217) posted at 7:31 AM on Friday, August 9th, 2013
I'm so glad to hear that gma!
Squeee!!!!
Sometimes the hardest part of finally seeing through someone is accepting what you see...
God grant me the serenity to accept the people I cannot change, the courage to
change the one I can, and the wisdom to know it's me.
-Reinhold Neibuhr
gma56 (original poster member #19595) posted at 9:33 AM on Friday, August 9th, 2013
Not sure if this will work for us but definitely we have something special I've never had with anyone else. I don't think anyone has ever known me as well as he does. I know FT never was interested enough to ask or listen but then neither did anyone before FT.
Yes I did miss him in my life. I hope I don't lose it again.
Gma
BW-Divorced
It's my life now, my choices, my mistakes to make and my victories to celebrate. His choices made me free of liars and betrayers in my life. That is priceless.
little turtle ( member #15584) posted at 2:13 PM on Friday, August 9th, 2013
I missed what happened with this guy and was wondering when there would be an update. Glad to hear it!!!
Failure is success if we learn from it.
IrishLass518 ( member #34373) posted at 2:29 PM on Friday, August 9th, 2013
So happy for you gma
You deserve happiness and someone who cares for you. CW taking time to get himself right so he can be the right person with you, that is really caring about you. That is someone super special
Me: 46 BS Divorced
Him: 45 Married OW
DDay: 07/04/2008
Divorced: 06/15/2011
5 kids: IrishLass 27,IrishLad 25, IrishLass 23, IrishLad 21 and IrishLad 12
"You can't run from trouble..there ain't no place that far"
gma56 (original poster member #19595) posted at 6:51 PM on Friday, August 9th, 2013
CW taking time to get himself right so he can be the right person with you, that is really caring about you. That is someone super special
He did the hard work for himself and his future but it would be wonderful if I was the one to share the future with him.
He's a good man and a great friend so if that is all we will be, that is pretty special in it's self altho if that is all, I hope I lose what I feel. I don't want to be that woman that loves someone and they don't ever feel the same. Time will tell.
Right now we are both busy trying to get some security. Neither wants to be a burden to the other.It will be SLOW Forward.
BW-Divorced
It's my life now, my choices, my mistakes to make and my victories to celebrate. His choices made me free of liars and betrayers in my life. That is priceless.
Sad in AZ ( member #24239) posted at 9:27 PM on Friday, August 9th, 2013
I'm so glad he realized he was missing out on the best thing in his life.
Congratulations, and enjoy!
You are important and you matter. Your feelings matter. Your voice matters. Your story matters. Your life matters. Always.
Me: FBS (no longer betrayed nor a spouse)-63
D-day: 2007 (two years before finding SI)
S: 6/2010; D: 3/2011
tesla ( member #34697) posted at 9:58 PM on Friday, August 9th, 2013
Very happy for you!
"Thou art the son and heir of a mongrel bitch." --King Lear
burnt_toast ( member #16891) posted at 3:08 AM on Saturday, August 10th, 2013
Hi gma! So happy to see you are in a good place. 
I may have not gone where I intended to go, but I think I have ended up where I needed to be.
- Douglas Adams
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