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heathenchristian (original poster member #40060) posted at 4:13 AM on Saturday, August 10th, 2013
Not just a fricken glance, more like ogling her. Not attractive either. Same ethnicity as OW.
I'm sittin outside now. Don't want to be near him. Hopin he will go to sleep since he has to be @ wrk early am. My blood is boilin.
[This message edited by heathenchristian at 10:47 PM, August 10th (Saturday)]
DDAY 3 - July 2019 - He's seeing his sister's boyfriends sister....LOL
DDAY 1 - not sure but it was July, Aug or Sept 2010 (supposed bj from hooker)
DDAY 2 - 7-22-2013 she was the made up hooker
blakesteele ( member #38044) posted at 5:03 AM on Saturday, August 10th, 2013
(heathenchristian) Peace be with you. Angry, hostile night here too.
God be with us.
ME: 42 BH, I don't PM female members
SHE: 38 EA
Married: 15 years
Together: 17 years
D/Day 9-10-12
NC: 10-25-12
NC: Broken early November 2012, OM not respond
2 girls; 7 and 10
Fear is payments on debts you have not yet incurred.
rachelc ( member #30314) posted at 12:35 PM on Saturday, August 10th, 2013
this has happened to me as well. I don't understand, after an affair or two, why you would even LOOK at another woman in your wife's presence...
anyone?
Knowing ( member #37044) posted at 12:54 PM on Saturday, August 10th, 2013
It is infuriating to see fWH ogle other women. It had never bothered me before, but I think that behaviour had ramped up in recent years.
I think it's a symptom of their "disease". My fWH admits to objectifying women and that's why he stares. I confronted him about it several months back and he recognized it as part of the slippery slope. He says he's trying to break the habits and the thinking around that behaviour.
BW, R last 4 years of marriage out of 15... FINALLY, HAPPILY DIVORCING!
We are in R.
summerain ( member #37439) posted at 12:56 PM on Saturday, August 10th, 2013
Well...
Mine imagines them naked... and can't help it. Co-workers... everyone. Happens about 10 times a day...
Beat that 
OW1 inadvertently let me know WH loves English breakfast tea. Never ever saw him drink it. And I never will.
heathenchristian (original poster member #40060) posted at 4:30 AM on Sunday, August 11th, 2013
I'm sure he was looking at her and thinking of his OW.
It makes me think R is ridiculous.
Tonight was a better night.
Thanks for the support.
DDAY 3 - July 2019 - He's seeing his sister's boyfriends sister....LOL
DDAY 1 - not sure but it was July, Aug or Sept 2010 (supposed bj from hooker)
DDAY 2 - 7-22-2013 she was the made up hooker
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