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ifinallyfoundme (original poster member #39523) posted at 9:55 PM on Sunday, August 11th, 2013
While reading communication H had with OW I noticed too many instances were OW made a serious attempt to imitate my hobbies and special things I would do for him. Have any of you experienced this?
tryingagain74 ( member #33698) posted at 9:58 PM on Sunday, August 11th, 2013
Well, she took over my old life-- SAHM living in my marital home (and in my marital bed as far as I know), going on the same family trips and outings that we used to go on, living in and raising her kids in my community (which is two hours from where she used to live). So, yes-- it looks to me like she's trying to be an inferior reboot of me. Good luck with that, and enjoy the manchild that I was relieved to cast off! 
FBS; now happily liberated!
Two DS and One DD
It matters not how strait the gate,/How charged with punishments the scroll./I am the master of my fate:/I am the captain of my soul.--"Invictus," William Ernest Henley
FoolontheHill ( member #40225) posted at 10:11 PM on Sunday, August 11th, 2013
No but OM I the EA imitated/copied things STBXWW did, like going to yoga, eating certain foods, doing power cleanse and even some texting quirks. The fact that SHE IS 42 and he is 71 makes all the more disturbing.
Me BH 46
WW 42
Dday 1: 10/20/2010 -- 3 month physical affair
Dday2: 7/7/2013 -- 3 year emotional affair but I think it was more.
Vulcanized ( member #33523) posted at 10:13 PM on Sunday, August 11th, 2013
Me: fBW/MH 40s
3.26.13: Liberation day: D'd the whiny turd after being saddled with a serial cheating, NPD, jitbag 10 years too long
Now:-----> Everything is as it should be
tesla ( member #34697) posted at 10:14 PM on Sunday, August 11th, 2013
Oh boy, I don't know. But just the thought of that basically illiterate, white trailer trash, 'names OC after a character on Beverly Hillbillies' stripper whore trying to copy my class, intelligence, and just in general awesomeness leaves me rolling on the floor, dying of laughter. 
[This message edited by tesla at 4:14 PM, August 11th (Sunday)]
"Thou art the son and heir of a mongrel bitch." --King Lear
musiclovingmom ( member #38207) posted at 10:19 PM on Sunday, August 11th, 2013
OW 2 grew her hair out and got it dyed and cut to match mine. So did OW 5 shortly after my H went NC with her. OW 5 is also perusing the same degree I have (though she was doing that before she and my H reconnected). I do know that she was aware of the things we had in common. She pointed them out when she was trying to gain my sympathy after outing their A.
sparkysable ( member #3703) posted at 12:55 AM on Monday, August 12th, 2013
Well, we had 2 German Shepherds. XWH moved in with her after D-day, and they got a German Shepherd puppy. I find that seriously creepy.
D-day OW#1 2/2004;D-day OW#2 5/2010
Marriages that start this way, stepping over the bodies of loved ones as the giddy couple walks down the aisle, are not likely to last.
myperfectlife ( member #39801) posted at 2:12 AM on Monday, August 12th, 2013
The name OW had picked out for "their" (hypothetical) daughter is my son's middle name.
And yes, she knew this.
I cannot be responsible for another's personal growth.
DDay#1 of a "cheatillion" 4/1/13
Divorce final 11/04/13
Jospehine85 ( member #35971) posted at 2:44 AM on Monday, August 12th, 2013
Yep, started growing her hair out and wearing the same underwear that I wear. Both on WH's prompting.
Basically, anything she suspected WH liked about me she mimiced. Anything he claimed I did/was that he didn't like, she claimed to be the opposite.
OW also imitated WH. His favorite drink in the world is Coke Zero? OMG! hers too!!!!
Me - BS
WH - old
Kids
Dday May 2012
Ashland13 ( member #38378) posted at 2:44 AM on Monday, August 12th, 2013
Floozy made pages on the internet and either stole off Nearly Exh's computer or was given all these pictures that were of him and DD-I was cut out of them and some pictures were clearly cropped or messed with.
It still creeps me out and messed up my sense of security, because some were taken by me and in my house or at events in my house. It will be with me for a long time.
Ashland 13
A person is a person, no matter how small. -Dr. Suess
Perserverance and spirit have done wonders in all ages.
-George Washington
Ostrich80 ( member #34827) posted at 9:00 AM on Monday, August 12th, 2013
Right after DD she would change her fbk profile pic to whatever mine was. If I had a pic in the car, she would, if I had one at the lake, she would. Hers was more of her being a f**king bitch than wanting to be me. I'm sure she thought it was funny in her sic simpleton mind, like a game ..so I blocked her.
BS..me
WS..him
Been with him over half my life
4kid
DD1 10-01-09 DD2 02-12-12 discovered it never ended
OW..nothing special. Just your average skank
Status..#$%@????
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