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caregiver9000 (original poster member #28622) posted at 9:32 PM on Monday, August 12th, 2013
Did you get home safely from your date?
I have been patiently (ok, maybe not so much) but waiting all the same for the update!!!
Do tell, please! 
Me: fortysomething, independent, happy,
XH "Stretch" (and Skew!) ;)
two kids, teens. Old enough I am truly NO CONTACT w/ NPD zebraduck
S 5/2010
D 12/2012
HURTAGAIN1981 ( member #35178) posted at 9:33 PM on Monday, August 12th, 2013
Same here! I've been looking out for an update!!!
nowiknow23 ( member #33226) posted at 9:35 PM on Monday, August 12th, 2013
You can call me NIK
And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane
wildbananas ( member #10552) posted at 10:15 PM on Monday, August 12th, 2013
Sorry. I wasn't building up the suspense on purpose, I really wasn't. 
It actually went really well. He was very sweet and attentive but managed to hang onto his man card while doing so, yannow?
He lives in a different state (about nine hours off) but between work and family, he comes to this area on a fairly-regular basis. He said he will probably be here in about a month and if I'm interested, he'd like to go out again.
At this point, an LDR wouldn't bother me at all. Not that's what this is at this point, because it isn't. I'm not ready for a full on relationship, nor is the bunch. But sure, I can go out with a nice dude once a month or so. That sounds pretty good to me and like something we can all handle. 
Travel light, live light, spread the light, be the light. ~ Yogi Bhajan
Newlease ( member #7767) posted at 10:23 PM on Monday, August 12th, 2013
NL
Even if you can't control the world around you, you are still the master of your own soul.
HURTAGAIN1981 ( member #35178) posted at 10:37 PM on Monday, August 12th, 2013
Really glad it went well 
Williesmom ( member #22870) posted at 12:14 AM on Tuesday, August 13th, 2013
Awesome!
You can stuff your sorries in a sack, mister. -George Costanza
There is a special place in hell for women who don't help other women. - Madeleine Albright
caregiver9000 (original poster member #28622) posted at 12:41 AM on Tuesday, August 13th, 2013
YAY! Love this. Sounds about perfect to me too. Thanks for updating. Sorry (ok, not really) for being impatient!!
Me: fortysomething, independent, happy,
XH "Stretch" (and Skew!) ;)
two kids, teens. Old enough I am truly NO CONTACT w/ NPD zebraduck
S 5/2010
D 12/2012
nowiknow23 ( member #33226) posted at 12:43 AM on Tuesday, August 13th, 2013
You can call me NIK
And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane
NaiveAgain ( member #20849) posted at 1:03 AM on Tuesday, August 13th, 2013
Original WS D-Day July 10, 2008. Kept lying, he is gone.
New WS (2 EA's, no PA) 12-3-13
If you don't like where you are, then change it. You are not a tree.
click4it ( member #209) posted at 1:42 AM on Tuesday, August 13th, 2013
yay!! I didn't even know you had a date. How did I miss that??
Me: 45
Two boys: 20 and 17
Divorced 12-13-05
d-day 10-02-01
Laughter will cure life's ills. Have you had your laugh today?
Amazonia ( member #32810) posted at 1:50 AM on Tuesday, August 13th, 2013
Yay Nanners!!
What did you wear?
"You yourself deserve your love and affection as much as anybody in the universe." -Buddha
"Let's face it, life is a crap shoot." -Sad in AZ
Kajem ( member #36134) posted at 3:39 AM on Tuesday, August 13th, 2013
Yay!!!!
Sounds like a very good new beginning.
Hugs
K
I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - UnknownRelationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.
InnerLight ( member #19946) posted at 4:11 AM on Tuesday, August 13th, 2013
Sounds fun! I love sweet plus attentive plus manly.
BS, 64 yearsD-day 6-2-08D after 20 years together
The journey from Armageddon to Amazing Life happens one step at a time. Don't ever give up!
wildbananas ( member #10552) posted at 5:34 AM on Tuesday, August 13th, 2013
Ama... a green shirt that was kind of open at the back (good color for my hair and eyes), jeans, wedges. I looked not horrible.
Thanks all!
ETA: He's going to be back 09/21...
[This message edited by wildbananas at 11:34 PM, August 12th (Monday)]
Travel light, live light, spread the light, be the light. ~ Yogi Bhajan
click4it ( member #209) posted at 5:41 AM on Wednesday, August 14th, 2013
I looked not horrible.
Course not, you know you looked beautiful! 
Me: 45
Two boys: 20 and 17
Divorced 12-13-05
d-day 10-02-01
Laughter will cure life's ills. Have you had your laugh today?
cmego ( member #30346) posted at 12:55 PM on Wednesday, August 14th, 2013
me...BS, 46 years old.
Divorced
Sad in AZ ( member #24239) posted at 2:06 PM on Wednesday, August 14th, 2013
You are important and you matter. Your feelings matter. Your voice matters. Your story matters. Your life matters. Always.
Me: FBS (no longer betrayed nor a spouse)-63
D-day: 2007 (two years before finding SI)
S: 6/2010; D: 3/2011
better4me ( member #30341) posted at 6:10 PM on Wednesday, August 14th, 2013
DDay 11/17/2010 BW:58
Happily remarried!
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