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Day 3 of being apart

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 IslandGirl18 (original poster member #36781) posted at 5:19 PM on Wednesday, August 14th, 2013

I left him on Monday. I am not as devastated as DDay, but I am grieving over the loss of my marriage. I miss my husband. I keep wishing none of this ever happened...his betrayal...all of it. But it did.

I haven't heard from him. No calls, no texts, no emails. Nothing.

I keep hoping he will have an epiphany and realize the loss.

I don't think that will happen.

I need to stop being hurt by him.

I just didn't deserve this. How cruel to hurt me over and over again.

me: BS
him: WS

D Day: July 27, 2012
Day of first suspicion: 6/7/11
DD#2: November 2, 2012

Divorced

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Deeply Scared ( Administrator #2) posted at 5:56 PM on Wednesday, August 14th, 2013

island girl...

One day at a time...keep focused on your own healing.

"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." My Mom:)

My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.

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nowiknow23 ( member #33226) posted at 6:38 PM on Wednesday, August 14th, 2013

No, honey - you didn't deserve this. Put self-care at the top of your list. Stop looking to him for epiphanies or contact, and focus on yourself and your healing. ((((hugs))))

You can call me NIK

And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane

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