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Reconciliation :
Relationship books? (not necessarily affair books)

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 naivewife (original poster member #38375) posted at 9:48 PM on Monday, August 19th, 2013

Any good relationship building books out there, besides the 5 Love Languages book? Sadly, that effing book is a trigger because OW was constantly telling WH that he spoke all her love languages. Glad they had such a great relationship.

D-day #1 - 1/23/13
false R, then...
D-day #2 - 3/26/13
I will come for the benefit of the sick, remaining free of all intentional injustice, of all mischief and in particular of sexual relations with both female and male persons. - Hippocratic Oath

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whatamidoing ( member #37152) posted at 10:51 PM on Monday, August 19th, 2013

mort Furness sp? marriage fitness on line book and CD were great

they made good relationship into a easy as 123

not sure it can help like it says it can with only one perso participating but if my spouse had tried that I would have felt like we had a chance

A friend can tell you things you don't want to tell yourself
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BS Me 43
WH 42
DD June 2nd '12
LTA (2+ yrs)
False R Many times from July '12 till now forced D
OW: acting like she is the wife

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NoTriangles ( member #35985) posted at 11:04 PM on Monday, August 19th, 2013

Try Hold Me Tight, by Dr. Sue Johnson.

Great book!

Me: Finding my SunlightHim: Traitor in my FoxholeLet go or get dragged.

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AFrayedKnot ( member #36622) posted at 11:06 PM on Monday, August 19th, 2013

We read "The marriage you have always dreamed of" by Gregg Smalley very early in R. It blew us away. Aside from SI it has had the biggest impact on our relationship. It does have a christian references but the principles and exercises are universal.

BS 48fWS 44 (SurprisinglyOkay)DsD DSA whole bunch of shit that got a lot worse before it got better."Knowing is half the battle"

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