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strawblond30 (original poster member #6263) posted at 1:08 AM on Thursday, August 22nd, 2013
She said my marriage was over years ago when he started cheating. And she thinks he is a narcissist
Divorced 2013 after several years of infidelity on both sides. Remarried July 2018 my new husband Is opposite from Ex. I can actually breath with out worrying what he is doing. Living my best life now .
HurtsButImOK ( member #38865) posted at 2:10 AM on Thursday, August 22nd, 2013
((strawblond30))
It hurts but sometimes it helps so that you can let go that which you cant control (him) and focus on you.
You are the prize. Focus on you now and getting to a better, stronger, healthier you. You are worth it.
Me: Awesome - 35.... ummm, not anymore
"I’ve learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel". –Maya Angelou
persevere ( member #31468) posted at 4:27 AM on Thursday, August 22nd, 2013
Did it help you to hear that from someone not connected? I hope so because your IC is right. ((Hugs))
DDay:2011
Status: D 2011
Remarried to a kind and wonderful man - 2017
Above all, be the heroine, not the victim. - Nora Ephron
It is our choices...that show what we truly are, far more than our abilities.
- J. K.
gonnabe2016 ( member #34823) posted at 5:39 AM on Thursday, August 22nd, 2013
Well talk about cutting right to the chase, huh?
The 'label' itself doesn't really matter. It is what the 'labelee' (your wh) is doing about himself.
I appreciate straight talk and I would have SO loved an IC that said what yours said to you... to me...instead of my having to use the 'figure it out for yourself in due time' mindset that so many IC's seem to have.
And you are aware that people with personality disorders, which includes NPD, are pretty much NOT going to change, right? (change IS possible for any human, but that human has to be desirable of the change.....and PD'd people have to be total 'change workhorses' in order to have any effect)
Start detaching, SB.....
"Oh, what a tangled web we weave when first we practice to deceive." - Sir Walter Scott
In my effort to be *concise*, I often come off as blunt and harsh. Sorry, don't mean to be offensive.
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