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Divorce/Separation :
Feeling defeated and walked on.

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 hangingontohope7 (original poster member #20024) posted at 3:12 AM on Thursday, August 22nd, 2013

I know that nothing STBXWH does should surprise me anymore but...

My kids told me that they met OW during their visit this week.

I can't even form words right now. I'm so furious and so sad.

Me: BW
DDay #1 Tried R
DDAY #2 Divorcing

Burn everything love then burn the ashes.

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nowiknow23 ( member #33226) posted at 3:19 AM on Thursday, August 22nd, 2013

((((holding & kids)))) I'm so sorry, honey.

You can call me NIK

And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane

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tryingagain74 ( member #33698) posted at 3:28 AM on Thursday, August 22nd, 2013

I know how you feel.

Take care of yourself. I tried to be very kind to myself during that time. I also talked my loved ones' ears off, so I hope that you have someone that you can lean on IRL.

(((hanging)))

FBS; now happily liberated!
Two DS and One DD
It matters not how strait the gate,/How charged with punishments the scroll./I am the master of my fate:/I am the captain of my soul.--"Invictus," William Ernest Henley

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abigailadams ( member #37556) posted at 3:29 AM on Thursday, August 22nd, 2013

It was really hard for me too when my DD met the OW a few weeks ago.

You will always be their Mom. You are irreplaceable.

(((((hangingontohope7)))))

Me BS 55
Him WS 53
Married 10 years together 13
DDay October 11, 2012

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jo2love ( member #31528) posted at 3:54 AM on Thursday, August 22nd, 2013

(((hangingontohope7 & kids)))

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LadyQ ( member #32847) posted at 6:35 PM on Thursday, August 22nd, 2013

Oh, I feel your pain. X's cumdumpster has even moved to my town and enrolled her kids in my school. It's 30 minutes from where he lives. One is in my youngest daughter's grade. The principal assigned her to my daughter's homeroom knowing that this woman has filed false accusations against my son and verbally assaulted me on campus (she had to be dragged out of the office dropping all sorts of profanity on the way out).

This shit sandwich is really starting to taste bad.

Tune out the noise of what others tell you about who you are and work it out for yourself...

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