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ILINIA (original poster member #39836) posted at 2:13 PM on Thursday, August 22nd, 2013
Today my WH moves his office! He will no longer be 30 feet from OW, he will be in a different building with a different parking structure. The will continue to share a cafeteria (I was hoping he would pack a lunch) and it will take a few weeks to transition responsibilities.
I am excited that I won't have to stress every morning when he leaves, but it is tempered with the fact that we even have to deal with crap like this.
Oddly, I am also meeting with a lawyer this morning to discuss post nups, so it is a busy, busy day!
I am going to do my best and try to choose to be happy today!
LosferWords ( member #30369) posted at 3:03 PM on Thursday, August 22nd, 2013
struggling3 ( member #34671) posted at 3:38 PM on Thursday, August 22nd, 2013
So happy for you. I couldn't even imagine the feeling of knowing they were so close. My H and the MCOW work in the same building...different floors...different parking locations...and it still gives me anxiety. He has changed up his habits (rarely leaves his desk...even for lunch) but boy do I feel your relief. 
Me - BS 58
H - WS 60/very remorseful and supportive
discovered 4 month long EA
R - slow and steady but very optimistic
Skan ( member #35812) posted at 12:01 AM on Friday, August 23rd, 2013
I'm really glad for you! Me, I'm pack him lunch each day so no need to go to cafeteria.
Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.
D-Day, June 10, 2012
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