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LA44 ( member #38384) posted at 7:59 PM on Friday, August 23rd, 2013
I am sorry Unagie. I hope the peaceful moment you shared last night continues. I just read that good endings make for good beginnings.
LA
Me: 44
He: 47 WH
Married: 15 years
D Day: December 2012
Affair: Fall 2009 - Dec. 2011
R is not linear
girlsbird ( member #30877) posted at 5:00 AM on Saturday, August 24th, 2013
D-Day 10/28/10..almost admission 7/10 Reconciled. I was the betrayed
uncertainone ( member #28108) posted at 6:03 AM on Saturday, August 24th, 2013
I'm sorry you're hurting. 
It will get better. One day at a time.
Me: 37
'til the roof comes off. 'til the lights go out. 'til my legs give out, can't shut my mouth
5454real ( member #37455) posted at 6:12 AM on Saturday, August 24th, 2013
It hurts and at the same time I'm okay...
I'm sorry for the pain. With everything you have done to grow, with all the lessons you have learned, you are going to be OK.
You are going to be a heck of a formidable woman.
You go girl!!!!
BH 58, WW 49
DS 31(Mine),SD 29,SS 28(Hers),DS 16 Ours, DGS 11, DGD 8, DGS 3
D=Day #1 5/04EA (Rugswept)
D-Day #2 3/10/12, TT til 3/13/12
Married 13yrs
"I have no love for a friend who loves in words alone."
― Sophocle
wildbananas ( member #10552) posted at 7:01 AM on Saturday, August 24th, 2013
Travel light, live light, spread the light, be the light. ~ Yogi Bhajan
ZenMumWalking ( member #25341) posted at 8:48 AM on Saturday, August 24th, 2013
Me (BS), Him (WH): late-50's
3 DS: 26, 25, 22
M: 30+ (19 1/2 at Dday)
Dday: Dec 2008
Wanted R, not gonna happen (in permanent S)
Used to be DeadMumWalking, doing better now
ccw82 ( member #40133) posted at 4:24 PM on Saturday, August 24th, 2013
I am sorry to hear about your loss. It is always a sad thing when it's OVER OVER (like, FOR REAL over).
Me (BW): 39
WXH (1DumbHusband): 43
We were married for over 11 years; now divorced.
BIG D-Day: June 17th, 2013
Too many freaking TTs that cost us our marriage in the end.
"Love isn't a feeling, it's a choice."
Williesmom ( member #22870) posted at 4:29 PM on Saturday, August 24th, 2013
You can stuff your sorries in a sack, mister. -George Costanza
There is a special place in hell for women who don't help other women. - Madeleine Albright
Kajem ( member #36134) posted at 3:52 PM on Sunday, August 25th, 2013
I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - UnknownRelationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.
Unagie (original poster member #37091) posted at 7:02 PM on Sunday, August 25th, 2013
Thanks guys. I've been working and coping the past few days. Each step I take that severs us a little more feels painful and so final...it feels like little cuts to my heart each time. No one in my life or family knows yet save my BFF who called me when it happened and I reached out because of how much it was hurting. Had she not contacted me at that moment she probably wouldn't know either. I haven't told anyone because I need to decided where I want to go and do from here without outside influence and knowing my family and friends they will all have something to say about what I should be doing now.
Thank you all for your support. I am walking through this as best I can.
EmotionalFool ( member #37362) posted at 7:33 PM on Sunday, August 25th, 2013
(((unagie)))
WW: 28 (ME)
BH: 28 (SI profile: CrappyLife)
D-Day- 15/10/12
nowiknow23 ( member #33226) posted at 4:10 PM on Monday, August 26th, 2013
How are you doing today, Unagie?
You can call me NIK
And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane
gahurts ( member #33699) posted at 4:13 PM on Monday, August 26th, 2013
I'm so sorry Unagie. I've been reading your posts and I know that you have been working really hard both with your self and your relationship. I hope you find the strength to do what is best for you and that you put yourself first.
"Strength does not come from physical capacity. It comes from an indominable will" - Mahatma Gandi
"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - Aubrie
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