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hurtbs (original poster member #10866) posted at 12:33 AM on Tuesday, August 27th, 2013
I posted a while ago that XSO and I broke up about 2 months ago when I moved 1,500 miles for a job. Neither of us wanted to do long distance. It was the right choice, just sucks.
We have spoken a few times since the breakup, but not regularly. I'm maintaining about 90% NC - largely just to give me some breathing room to move forward and heal. It's going fine - I feel like emotionally I'm where I should be after a breakup from a 1 year relationship (funny how A and ugly D gives you some real relationship perspective...)
Well, in the celeb gossip news (which somehow is always on the front news page) is that Lamar Odom, husband of Klhoe Kardashian has disappeared. Big trigger... weirdly. He and I used to always joke about the Kardashians. It was one of those private jokes between just the two of us. Miss it... and him...
So tempting to text him about it, but I'm not.
More than anything that's what's hardest... not texting him the little things about life.
Me - 40 something. WXH DDay 2006, Divorced 2012
WBF DDay #1 9/2022 #2 11/2022
Single
She11ybeanz ( member #27457) posted at 1:10 AM on Tuesday, August 27th, 2013
((hurtbs)) 
"Sometimes your knight in shining armor ...is just a douchebag in tin foil!!"
ME - BW - 35
HIM - XWH - 39
D day: November 15th, 2009
Married: 5 Years, together 8
Divorced: December 13th, 2010
New Beginning: Piper/8-3-12
jo2love ( member #31528) posted at 3:36 PM on Tuesday, August 27th, 2013
wildbananas ( member #10552) posted at 6:43 PM on Tuesday, August 27th, 2013
Travel light, live light, spread the light, be the light. ~ Yogi Bhajan
click4it ( member #209) posted at 7:01 PM on Tuesday, August 27th, 2013
its like losing a best friend all over again, I get it. ((((((hurts))))))
Me: 45
Two boys: 20 and 17
Divorced 12-13-05
d-day 10-02-01
Laughter will cure life's ills. Have you had your laugh today?
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