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jtom ( member #35322) posted at 1:25 AM on Friday, August 30th, 2013
I actually allowed my stbxw to come back home after I discovered her LTA. She moved out 12-26-09, yeah, the day after Christmas. I didn't have a clue what was going on then. Didn't find out about the LTA until the middle of August 2010. Went nuclear, blew the affair up. She initially was kind of remorseful an I allowed to come back in November of 2010. Even went on a cruise to try to rekindle things. The problem was though she never showed me any renewed appreciation an refused to go to counciling . Her attitude was , ok, Iam back, now get over it. NOT! Kicked her out an divorced her. Should have never let her come back.
ME(BH)HER(WW)LTA AT WORK.DISCOVERED AUGUST 2010. TWO SONS.DIVORCED HER. "THE BEST PREDICTER OF FUTURE BEHAVIOR IS PAST BEHAVIOR"
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