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Gemini71 (original poster member #40115) posted at 4:09 AM on Saturday, August 31st, 2013
I've been dealing with riding the roller coaster in and out of BS fog, and trying to make some decisions for the future. So today, WH stopped by to pick up the boys for a camping trip this weekend. He brought me candy and flowers. REALLY!!!
Sure, that really makes up for sleeping with my best friend and some random Craig's List chic. Way to mess with my head. Too bad it will just backfire on him. 
The Legal Separation papers are on their way. 
[This message edited by Gemini71 at 10:10 PM, August 30th (Friday)]
DSs 21, 16, 12
About my Ex:
IDK
IDC
IDGAF
Double Betrayal D-Day 7/26/2013
Divorced 11/18/2014
Skan ( member #35812) posted at 6:34 PM on Saturday, August 31st, 2013
Far too little, far too late. (((hugs)))
Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.
D-Day, June 10, 2012
Jrazz ( member #31349) posted at 7:05 PM on Saturday, August 31st, 2013
What, no jewelry? 
I'm really glad you can see this for what it really is.
(((Gemini71)))
"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." - Deeply Scared's mom
nowiknow23 ( member #33226) posted at 2:11 AM on Monday, September 2nd, 2013
You can call me NIK
And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane
Nest2007 ( member #39532) posted at 4:06 AM on Monday, September 2nd, 2013
Ha! I feel the same way about my former friend and OW. You can't 'nice' your way out of having slept with my WH. He, at least, is showing genuine remorse and his actions and words prove he's serious about R. Some people are just so stupid. SMH!
BS 35
WS 31
DD, only child
DDay: 06/09/13
End of TT/Full Disclosure 07/08/13
Reconciling. A stronger marriage now.
Psalm 37. It rocks my world. So does 140. Big guy upstairs has got it all figured out.
Gemini71 (original poster member #40115) posted at 9:35 AM on Monday, September 2nd, 2013
Believe it or not, his peace offering of bringing me candy and flowers, has turned into the catalyst for filing for D. It has pointed out to me just how broken my trust of him is, and just how far up his a$$ his head must be.
I have been asking for the past 2 weeks for him to make a marriage counseling appointment for us. That's what I really wanted. Not candy and flowers.
Now its just too little, way to late.
DSs 21, 16, 12
About my Ex:
IDK
IDC
IDGAF
Double Betrayal D-Day 7/26/2013
Divorced 11/18/2014
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