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Nest2007 (original poster member #39532) posted at 8:27 AM on Wednesday, September 4th, 2013
This isn't pretty, but it's an amazing read.
http://thecreativejunkie.com/2013/06/03/what-happened-to-us/
BS 35
WS 31
DD, only child
DDay: 06/09/13
End of TT/Full Disclosure 07/08/13
Reconciling. A stronger marriage now.
Psalm 37. It rocks my world. So does 140. Big guy upstairs has got it all figured out.
WIgirl ( member #40533) posted at 11:11 AM on Wednesday, September 4th, 2013
Thank you for sharing. I liked this line "I couldn't save or our marriage and had come to the realization that I couldn't save [insert WS]and had no business even trying because you can't save someone who is bound and determined to self destruct. So for the sake of my kids and my sanity, I decided to concentrate on saving myself."
These were very good words for me to read today.
Me: 39 yo BW
Him: 41 yo WH
2 daughters (9, 6); married 16 yrs
DD: 6/2/13 (5 mo EA/PA with coworker)
Divorced 7/17/15
Phoenix9572 ( member #39987) posted at 1:03 PM on Wednesday, September 4th, 2013
Oh Wow! Is all I can say. I can't imagine the horrors that woman endured through the unraveling of her life and her relationship with her WH. I am only just beginning this path and pray that things do not go this badly for my family.
Thank you for sharing her story here.
Me - 40
WH - 42
Married 18 years
kids - 14, 12
DD - May 13, 2013
DD2 - Aug 4, 2013
DD3 - Aug 27, 2013
Status - Legally separated; really wanted R but don't think that is possible anymore
Too_Trusting ( member #99) posted at 2:44 PM on Wednesday, September 4th, 2013
WOW. That's some powerful stuff that brought me back to a somewhat parallel universe. My exH was also SA with prostitutes, and OMG, the girlfriend experience was the hooker that I discovered first. 
"Anyone perfect must be lying; anything easy has its cost. Anyone plain can be lovely; anyone loved can be lost." Barenaked Ladies
Broken1Again ( member #32211) posted at 11:29 PM on Friday, September 6th, 2013
It blows me away how someone can hide that for so long. I mean how do people live with themselves and why. Why not just be single and have dirty prostitutes anytime you want...Why drag a wife and kids through it? I just don't understand people. I try not to judge because judge lest ye be judged but really, I don't get it...
WS and I together 31 years.
Two kids 26/23
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