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I doubt it. She is too busy keeping up appearances elsewhere, preaching to others about how they should practice "kindness and love" to heal the world.

Well I don't think she would but just in case...."hi, PL, which married co-worker are you letting in your pants these days..hope your mom and dad are well".

No, MOWs BH refers to her as "A Moron" ~ I gather she probably can't read.

My User name is very similar to my email account. I am not sure she could connect the dots but she is smart enough to. She could be here, she might not but if she is she has read exactly what I and my husband think about her as well as all the positive posts and responses I have given to others. She would know 100% that there was no room in our M or our lives for her.

My FB page also screams that. For the friends of mine that know of the situation, which number very fee, they love how I throw digs at her all the time. My profile picture says it all....H and I happy, smiling and in love!!!

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Not too worried because the low IQ ho uses the computer at the "liberry"

But just to be extra careful and protect my anonymity, I'm switching to Kettle One.

I have thought about this. At first I doubted it, even though she seems to be obsessed with us. Showing up where we are all the time...

Then a few days ago I get a PM on here from a new member. Only has two posts that are both just a couple word statements, and was asking me questions about our life/sex life before and during his A. Was getting very personal.

Do I think it is her? You bet I do! I hope it is her, I want her to know that she didn't break me, that I am stronger now, and that she never had a chance in hell of him leaving me for her.

Well I don't think she would but just in case...."hi, PL, which married co-worker are you letting in your pants these days..hope your mom and dad are well".

Thanks you made me laugh

His OW can't spell Surviving or Infidelity.

If she got someone else to search for her then I hope she knows my screen name. I'm posting nothing but the truth so she can suck it up, for all I care.

i have wondered, but I doubt it. I think if she did even know about it, it would be because she sought pleasure from everyones pain. I do however, worry, that they will make an APP that will show you who has searched for you since the beginning of time. i really wouldnt want her to see how much investigating I have had to do. TT's

I don't have to wonder. I know the OW lurked here and read what I posted. Now-exH told me. Both of them did, during what was false R. I have no proof of it but I suspect they both continued lurking for years after ex left me. Not just on SI but on social media sites and my blog, too.

Apparently I am just that interesting, don'tcha know?

I think that if you are very worried about it, the Moderators may be able to look to see if a particular e-mail is registered.

Mods?

I would doubt it but she stalked me on FB, by email, phone etc... so I wouldn't put it past her.

Actually I hope she, she can read how we are doing well in R. BTW if that's you DBC, we are going with the family to WDW then a romantic cruise in the spring!! SO K...M...A!

Yes, I have thought of that., because ws is still involved with her. He has gotten into my phone before and I could see him telling her about SI. She's just the kind of bitch that would think it was fun to eff with me on here. I'm careful about what I say and take precautions with my info...kind of mix things up a bit, if you Kwim

I hope she does, then she would get an idea of how little he actually cared for her. I think they could match up DDays, most of our DDays are theirs too.

I honestly hope many OW's lurk here. They could learn so much, and maybe take advantage of the wisdom and necessary two-by-fours on the Wayward board.

If my H's former OW is reading:

I hope you fired your useless IC and got someone who will help you face your serious inner damage. Please do not attempt any intimate relationships until you do the hard work to become a strong, whole, emotionally healthy person. If you just can't stand to be alone, manipulate a single guy, for f@ck's sake.

Whorangutan is too self-centered for that. If the website is not entitled, "Poor Me," she wouldn't have any interest.

OW did lurk here; she and Trac-fone enjoyed harvesting my pain for entertainment, as well as to fuel their continued contact post d-day. ("Ooh! She's so mean! No wonder Fate joined us together!")

She may still be around. I don't know. I don' t think she knows who I am now, but don"t much care.

I do know she utterly lacks remorse. She and Trac-fone really were quite a match (though she's far too venal to leave her husband's money.)

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waiting for the right thing to appear that she can use against you with your WH?

*Use* how?

I think that I understand what your point is...that OW will be able to use the "she is saying <this> or <that> about you! What a wench!"

But if you think about it....if your WH is so willing to be influenced by *her* opinion.....then that doesn't say much for any R attempt on your part, does it? Not to mention the fact that, at this point, he should be NC with her and shouldn't even KNOW whether she is reading your shit or not, right?