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we are staying together, but three years later

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 dontknow72 (original poster member #35772) posted at 5:24 AM on Saturday, September 7th, 2013

I can only have sex with him if I drink. I hate that I will never ever have a normal sex life. I hate sex with him. I fake liking it and I have to drink to even do it. :(

me-bw
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dday- Sept 11, 2010

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Morhurt ( member #40166) posted at 7:56 AM on Saturday, September 7th, 2013

Tell him. You need to be honest.

Me: BS
Him: FWS
M: 15 years
4 lovely daughters
Working to rebuild.

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whatnow8 ( member #36576) posted at 3:50 PM on Saturday, September 7th, 2013

((dontknow72)) I'm so sorry for what you are going thru, I can relate a lot. It sucks when you are so far out and still having these issues.

wtf?? How insane does your life have to get that you want to polygraph your freaking HUSBAND. ~ OldCow18

It's hard to make a decision when you're too tired to hold on and too in love to let go. ~ unknown

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Mousse242 ( member #6330) posted at 4:30 PM on Saturday, September 7th, 2013

Why are you staying? Are you still in counseling? You do need to talk to him about this.

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petite71 ( member #36475) posted at 4:37 PM on Saturday, September 7th, 2013

I'm so sorry you're feeling this way 3 years out Sometimes I fake it,but most of the times I enjoy it. But I faked it sometimes before I found out about the A.

You really need to tell him & keep open communication between you 2.....this is a must.

(((HUGS)))

1st DD 03/24/2012 2nd DD 07/13/2012 TT A. in 2002 same girl when we were dating.
Status:Getting Stronger...we can get through this & are healing together
BS(me):41
WS(Husband):40
LTA 10 yrs EA/PA 9 times. friends with benefits.
Us..Together 12 yr

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