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Do you ever understand why?

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Simple ( member #18814) posted at 7:34 PM on Wednesday, September 11th, 2013

Looks like his REAL problem is bad coping skills in relation to depression at least. And that colored everything else about you or the M.

Yes I do understand why my FWH had multiple OW and EAs and PAs. It has nothing to do with me and everything to do with his inability to see beyond himself, lack of transparency to me, and, you guessed it, bad coping skills.

[This message edited by Simple at 1:35 PM, September 11th (Wednesday)]

Love is a choice.

True love is harder to come by than soul mates. True love requires work.

Ignorance can be cured with knowledge. There is no cure for being an idiot.

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Kelany ( member #34755) posted at 7:37 PM on Wednesday, September 11th, 2013

For me, I had to realize even if I got a "sensible" why it would never make it okay or better. So I had to let it go.

BS - Me
SA/FWH Him
DDay 1 - Jul 11
DDay 2 - Jul 12
R Dec 12

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