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 soveryweary (original poster member #32265) posted at 12:09 PM on Wednesday, September 11th, 2013

So I am very computer illiterate.

I made an account on Ourtime.com because I know how to upload pictures from the home computer.

I forgot to hide my profile.

I log on to my email this morning and it blew up with messages, flirts and winks.

63 men.

I have hidden my profile from view.

Now I am freaking out my STBX will somehow find out.

Honestly, I am not ready for any kind of relationship, I just wanted to have my profile ready and the pictures in place.

It kind of made me feel good to be noticed, but then I think there are a lot of men with bad eyes out there!! LOL!!!

I just pray none of the ones that viewed my profile know the cheater.

One more thing to worry about until the divorce is final.

[This message edited by soveryweary at 6:10 AM, September 11th (Wednesday)]

Divorced 1/3/14 after 31 years of marriage.

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She11ybeanz ( member #27457) posted at 2:34 PM on Wednesday, September 11th, 2013

Yeah...I wouldn't be activating an online dating profile until many many months post-divorce. I made the mistake of online dating while separated....

One word... DISASTER.

"Sometimes your knight in shining armor ...is just a douchebag in tin foil!!"

ME - BW - 35
HIM - XWH - 39
D day: November 15th, 2009
Married: 5 Years, together 8
Divorced: December 13th, 2010
New Beginning: Piper/8-3-12

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