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sad81712 ( member #37418) posted at 6:45 PM on Sunday, September 15th, 2013
A song I've listen to over a 100 times is
Keep Breathing by Kerrie Roberts
"Pain is mandatory for all of us. It's what teaches us. Suffering is what's optional. That's what happens when we try to skip over the pain."-Glennon Doyle Melton
BW(me)-52 WH-51
Married 25yrs
DD & DS
D-day 8-2012
sisoon ( Moderator #31240) posted at 8:05 PM on Sunday, September 15th, 2013
Shot in the Heart - Tom Petty?
"Shot in the heart, and you're to blame.
You give Love a bad name."
fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex apDDay - 12/22/2010Recover'd and R'edYou don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.
broken0912 ( member #39780) posted at 8:08 PM on Sunday, September 15th, 2013
I know i posted this already, but here is the link for the song that has sustained me for over a year now:
India Arie - This too Shall pass
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KUk5FppngkY
BS 52
WS 64
OW 34 now - 23-24 when it began
dday-9/4/12
M 16+ together 19
HIS DC: D-33
6,S-28,S-25
MINE: 0 -he was too old to have C at 44, but had OC at 57
LTA: EA 1-2yr then 1.5 after pa end
LTA: PA 3.5-4 yrs
carnelian ( member #24824) posted at 8:26 PM on Sunday, September 15th, 2013
After the Holidays - Judy Garland
ETA: Working My Way Back To You - The Spinners (for recon)
[This message edited by carnelian at 2:59 PM, September 15th (Sunday)]
What are you going to do when he leaves you?
Amber13 ( member #40505) posted at 9:32 PM on Sunday, September 15th, 2013
Birdy - Skinny love (cover of someone else I think?)
Listen!!!
BW2639 ( member #34875) posted at 9:40 PM on Sunday, September 15th, 2013
Garth brooks: Papa Loved Mama. Favorite line: "the desk clerk said he saw it all real clear,....he never hit the brakes and he was shifting gears". At least that's what I fantasize about being able to do had I caught Fww at the hotel they used to go to :).
Tired05 ( member #39609) posted at 1:22 AM on Monday, September 16th, 2013
I have an entire playlist on Zune...but the most fitting.
Go to hell- Go Radio
Somewhere with you- Kenny Chesney
Lying is the most fun a girl can have without taking her clothes off- Panic at the disco
Every lie- My darkest days
Chalk outline- Three days grace
And when I'm angry and just need to scream:
Leech- Bullet for my valentine
The waiting one- All that remains
Smashed into pieces- Silverstein
[This message edited by Tired05 at 7:27 PM, September 15th (Sunday)]
Together 6 yrs. M 4 yrs. DD born 3/1/2013.
Me: BS -- Him: 1 EA/PA (6mos), PA (MW), and 6 ONS...Been at it for almost 5 yrs. *Still slave to TT* 1st DDay- 11/24/2012,
.....OC due in August.....
AlwaysBeenStrong ( member #39888) posted at 3:57 AM on Monday, September 16th, 2013
Thought of more!!!
City and Colour - Thirst
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tMWoimU2wUQ
Jaron And The Long Road To Love - Pray For You
http://youtu.be/AFJu8DCH_b0
BW: 41 (me)
Divorced soon.
Moving forward.
Pre Nursing Student
Getting a Do over at 42
gonnabe2016 ( member #34823) posted at 4:07 AM on Monday, September 16th, 2013
"Shot" in the heart, and you're to blame.
You give Love a bad name."
Bon Jovi, Sisoon. Not Tom Petty.....
"Oh, what a tangled web we weave when first we practice to deceive." - Sir Walter Scott
In my effort to be *concise*, I often come off as blunt and harsh. Sorry, don't mean to be offensive.
bbee ( member #17840) posted at 9:02 AM on Monday, September 16th, 2013
"Giddy On Up" by Laura Bell Bundy. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3xfFbB2CRo8
This above all: to thine ownself be true,
And it must follow, as the night the day,
Thou canst not then be false to any man.
Hamlet, Act I, Scene 3
Love all, trust a few, do wrong to none.
All's Well That Ends Well, Act I, Scene 1
uncertainone ( member #28108) posted at 8:04 PM on Thursday, September 19th, 2013
"Just Like You" Three Days Grace
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=l_ib6eKPshI&feature=youtube_gdata_player
Me: 37
'til the roof comes off. 'til the lights go out. 'til my legs give out, can't shut my mouth
Going To Make It ( member #17010) posted at 10:42 PM on Thursday, September 19th, 2013
To me this is a song from someone who realized to late what he lost.
John Denver's I'm Sorry (from the WS)
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GOuOMxnUpXI
[This message edited by Going To Make It at 4:43 PM, September 19th (Thursday)]
BW 47
M 1982 4 Adult Children
2 Grandkids - the light & loves of my life.
LTA Started before we were married and lsted until 9/02 DDay 4/4/04, TT till 9/24/2011
hitbyatruck ( member #23769) posted at 1:36 AM on Friday, September 20th, 2013
Strong Enough- Cher.
I listened to this song on repeat for months after dday.
I've been losing sleep
You've been going cheap
She ain't worth half of me it's true, I'm telling you
Now I'm strong enough
to live without you
Strong enough and I quit crying Long enough
now I'm strong enough to know you gotta go.
Married 1998. 2 kids. First discovery 3/2009. Multiple affairs, porn addiction. one failed attempt at R. Nested for over a year. Divorce final 8/2015. XH is now married. I am engaged!
TheCollector ( member #38890) posted at 3:13 AM on Friday, September 20th, 2013
I second the "silverstein" !
BUT I have a HUGE ONE for you guys but I gotta explain it first. It probably fits betrayed men best but fits all.
The band is called "RIGHT AWAY,GREAT CAPTAIN!" It is a 3 album long epic tale about a 17th century sailor who's wife cheats on him with his own brother. Each song is like his dairy entries. It's the MOST POWERFUL stuff I've heard on the subject and his voice is one of the best I've heard in my life!
Infidelity really IS the gift that keeps on giving...
TheCollector ( member #38890) posted at 3:15 AM on Friday, September 20th, 2013
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3wgGKpdv1t8
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=M2Ylo-hBbkA
Infidelity really IS the gift that keeps on giving...
TheCollector ( member #38890) posted at 3:22 AM on Friday, September 20th, 2013
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Hxp1a2pFP10
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xpc5QJTWKuE
Infidelity really IS the gift that keeps on giving...
LadyLove ( member #40664) posted at 4:40 AM on Friday, September 20th, 2013
Lovin', Touchin', Squeezin' - Journey
Don't Do Me Like That - Tom Petty
My favorite:
Throwing It All Away - Genesis
Throwing it all away, throwing it all away
Is there nothing that I can say
To make you change your mind?
I watch the world go round and round
And see mine turning upside down
Throwing it all away
Now, who will light up the darkness?
And who will hold your hand?
Who will find you the answers
When you don't understand?
Why should I have to be the one
Who has to convince you?
'Cause you know, I know baby
That I don't wanna go
Someday you'll be sorry
Someday when you're free
Memories will remind you
That our love was meant to be
But late at night when you call my name
The only sound you'll hear
Is the sound of your voice calling
Calling after me
[This message edited by LadyLove at 10:48 PM, September 19th (Thursday)]
BW - 50 (me)
WH - 51 Ladyslove
DDay Fall 2012
Don't know if I can live with it.
Always trust your gut. It knows what your head hasn't yet figured out. - Unknown
HardenMyHeart ( member #15902) posted at 4:52 AM on Friday, September 20th, 2013
Me: BH, Her: WW, Married 40 years, Reconciled
mandan66 ( member #40075) posted at 5:13 AM on Friday, September 20th, 2013
here is one of my favs, mainly cuz it as done by an old friend of mine who was in a Springfield MO band called the Morells. Anyhow the song is cover called "She was a Cheat", done by him from a band called The Park Central Squares.
Me: 47; WW: 48
2 DS: 9, 14
M:18--T:19
DDay: Jan/13
Divorced and Done!--7/13
5boysmom ( new member #32928) posted at 6:01 AM on Friday, September 20th, 2013
My favorite lately
Resentment by Beyonce
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