This Topic is Archived
movingbackwards (original poster member #40612) posted at 2:02 AM on Friday, September 13th, 2013
Have given lots of thought lately to why I am trying to R when it would be very easy for me to pick up and move on. Obviously I desire to have what I thought my marriage was, and it's hard to give up on that. But I've been letting go of a lot of the guilt I felt in the past thinking about D, realizing that that is my choice and a valid one at that.
I had uncovered a lot of details ab WH Internet cheating - different sites, how long it had been going on, etc... that hadn't been made clear to me by him. So I asked for full disclosure, even asking pointed questions about these things so he would have NO excuse for leaving them out. And I was lied to again, to my face. And with that, I know where he stands and what my decision needs to be moving forward. Not at all what I had hoped for, but it is what it is.
You can crawl back home, say you were wrong
Stand out in the yard and cry all night long
Go ahead and water the lawn
My give a damn's busted!
hathnofury ( member #32550) posted at 2:38 AM on Friday, September 13th, 2013
(((movingbackwards)))
I am so sorry. These married people that do anonymous encounters are just so incredibly sick and evil. Sadly, you will not likely ever get the full truth from him.
But you got enough "truth" to know what you need to do. See that as a small victory. You can proceed without doubt, and you can save yourself from years of misery from someone who is unremorseful. Because you deserve so much better.
BS 43, SAWH 38. M 15years, together 17. Body count in the triple digits. Both in recovery, trying to R.
Three kids under age 11.
This Topic is Archived
