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ruinedandbroken ( member #29250) posted at 2:42 AM on Saturday, September 21st, 2013
My ex did not end up marrying the OW but I doubt I could be in the same room as him. For me that would be like pouring alcohol into a wound that is not yet healed.
“People who cheat feel that life is for the taking, and that everyone deserves happiness no matter what the cost. I must remember these tricks if I ever have my soul surgically removed."
Me: BS 42. Him: WH 41 2 Kids 8&11
Married 14 yrs Together 21
PurpleRose ( member #33129) posted at 5:39 PM on Saturday, September 21st, 2013
I don't speak to any of "his" family because they are all feckin cheaters themselves and have always treated me and my (our) children like less than. So this is not something I will face in the future. I think you need to stay true to YOU. If this is not something you can handle right now, listen to your heart and decline. Choose you, Lord knows our WS and their APs sure do!!
I have thought about other events dealing with our children and I can only say that if he ever considers bringing his ugly skank to an event for one of our children he'd better bring back up.
My family is already bat shit crazy and doesn't need one more reason to confront him head on. He won't enjoy that confrontation, either. 
divorced the Dooosh 8/13
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Dance like nobody is watching,
Text and email like it will be used in court someday...
SBB ( member #35229) posted at 12:35 AM on Sunday, September 22nd, 2013
I would not attend the shower but would go to the wedding for the reasons you stated.
It doesn't matter how much time passes. I wouldn't subject myself to it unless I absolutely had to.
I may have reached a point where I'd piss on him if he was on fire.... eventually!!
click4it (original poster member #209) posted at 1:11 AM on Monday, September 23rd, 2013
I ended up going and she was not there.
I had a good time.
I have to admit everytime I heard the doorbell ring, my heart raced a bit, thinking it *might* be her.
Now to deal with the upcoming wedding....
Me: 45
Two boys: 20 and 17
Divorced 12-13-05
d-day 10-02-01
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