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crazyblindsided (original poster member #35215) posted at 9:43 PM on Friday, September 20th, 2013
Via FB
and inappropriately I might add. He said 3 words "I'd hit that" meaning he would have sex with me. 
Um...Really? Like am I supposed to be turned on by this or something?
I will be blocking, letting WH know, and deleting the message. Guess we should send a NC out too.
I just cannot believe people 
fBS/fWS(me):52 Mad-hattered after DD (2008)
XWS:55 Serial Cheater, Diagnosed NPD
DD(22) DS(19)
XWS cheated the entire M spanning 19 years
Discovered D-Days 2006,2008,2012, False R 2014
Separated 9/2019; Divorced 8/2024
Simple ( member #18814) posted at 9:46 PM on Friday, September 20th, 2013
MOW BS is probably in a lashing out phase. Just ignore and move on is my suggestion.
Love is a choice.
True love is harder to come by than soul mates. True love requires work.
Ignorance can be cured with knowledge. There is no cure for being an idiot.
-October 3, 2007
-February 18, 2022
scared&stronger ( member #15942) posted at 10:54 PM on Friday, September 20th, 2013
Or it isn't him. It is her instead.
WS 45
BS 43
Met when we were 17 and 15. Together since 1983, married since 1985. Two kids, B21, G15.
d-day 4-3-07
Life has a way of making us get our panties in a wad.....I refuse to wear panties ever again.
crazyblindsided (original poster member #35215) posted at 11:06 PM on Friday, September 20th, 2013
Or it isn't him. It is her instead.
I know I thought this too!
fBS/fWS(me):52 Mad-hattered after DD (2008)
XWS:55 Serial Cheater, Diagnosed NPD
DD(22) DS(19)
XWS cheated the entire M spanning 19 years
Discovered D-Days 2006,2008,2012, False R 2014
Separated 9/2019; Divorced 8/2024
losingmyground ( member #36070) posted at 3:22 AM on Tuesday, September 24th, 2013
I have been there. Except he showed up at my work told me he caught her again. Before he left he propositioned me. It was really uncomfortable. I told no, I would never cheat on anyone and to tell his wife I said hi. He asked if I was going to tell my husband that he was there and I said yes. It was left at that. Then a few days ago I got a message that from him that they are seperating. Nothing since.
Married 13 yrs
3 kids 13, 10 & 1
I'm 34
FWH 37
Affair lasted 6 months
Ended 09/2011
Found out 06/2012
My father died during the affair
In the middle of Reconcilliation
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