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wildbananas (original poster member #10552) posted at 9:55 PM on Monday, September 23rd, 2013
... I have an SO.
Saw the roses guy again this weekend and long story short, he asked to be exclusive (which I kind of was, anyway... multidating isn't for me) and I said yes.
A little scared, a little nervous but happy. I think this is a good one. 
Travel light, live light, spread the light, be the light. ~ Yogi Bhajan
nowiknow23 ( member #33226) posted at 10:02 PM on Monday, September 23rd, 2013
SQUEEEEE!
You can call me NIK
And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane
GabyBaby ( member #26928) posted at 10:13 PM on Monday, September 23rd, 2013
Awesome!!!!!!!! 
Me - late 40s
DD(27), DS(24, PDD-NOS)
WH#2 (SorryinSac)- Killed himself (May 2015) in our home 6 days after being served divorce docs.
XWH #1 - legally married 18yrs. 12+ OW (that I know of).
I edit often for clarity/typos.
ajsmom ( member #17460) posted at 10:19 PM on Monday, September 23rd, 2013
Sweet!!!
Happy Dancin' for you!
AJ's MOM
Fidelity isn't a feeling...it's a choice.
"Truth has no special time of its own. Its hour is now - always." - Albert Schweitzer
____________________________________________
Me: BW - Him: 200+ # tumor removed 7/09
One AMAZING DS - 34
Jpapageorge ( member #31800) posted at 10:20 PM on Monday, September 23rd, 2013
"Either get busy livin' or get busy dyin'." (and I prefer to live)
"Shame on me for kissing you with my eyes closed."
Spectemur agendo.
Me: FBBF
Newlease ( member #7767) posted at 10:21 PM on Monday, September 23rd, 2013
That's great! Hope everything just keeps getting better for you.
NL
Even if you can't control the world around you, you are still the master of your own soul.
MovingUpward ( member #14866) posted at 10:25 PM on Monday, September 23rd, 2013
OK you'll have to bring him to the next g2g so that we can all question him and make sure he is good enough. 
woundedby2 ( member #18522) posted at 10:38 PM on Monday, September 23rd, 2013
Best wishes!
In 2010 I divorced the NPD assclown who cheated on me with my best friend.
Everybody, soon or late, sits down to a banquet of consequences.
~Robert Louis Stevenson
jo2love ( member #31528) posted at 10:40 PM on Monday, September 23rd, 2013
wildbananas (original poster member #10552) posted at 10:42 PM on Monday, September 23rd, 2013
Thanks, all! And yes, Moo, I'll bring him to the next g2g. I'll also be sure to fill him in on your penchant for pedis so he can ask you all about it. 
Travel light, live light, spread the light, be the light. ~ Yogi Bhajan
Sad in AZ ( member #24239) posted at 10:59 PM on Monday, September 23rd, 2013
You are important and you matter. Your feelings matter. Your voice matters. Your story matters. Your life matters. Always.
Me: FBS (no longer betrayed nor a spouse)-63
D-day: 2007 (two years before finding SI)
S: 6/2010; D: 3/2011
phmh ( member #34146) posted at 12:12 AM on Tuesday, September 24th, 2013
Me: BW, divorced, now fabulous and happy!
Married: 11 years, no kids
Character is destiny
Jrazz ( member #31349) posted at 12:20 AM on Tuesday, September 24th, 2013
I will expect a complete debrief in 2.5 weeks.
"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." - Deeply Scared's mom
inconnu ( member #24518) posted at 12:31 AM on Tuesday, September 24th, 2013
There is no joy without gratitude. - Brené Brown
Jpapageorge ( member #31800) posted at 12:53 AM on Tuesday, September 24th, 2013
Y'all heard it here first, WB is throwin' a G2G at her house so we can all meet RG. Moo, SAz, Empress, WB2, book your flights now-IT'S PARTY TIME.
Today truly is a good day.
"Either get busy livin' or get busy dyin'." (and I prefer to live)
"Shame on me for kissing you with my eyes closed."
Spectemur agendo.
Me: FBBF
foreverempty ( member #34426) posted at 1:01 AM on Tuesday, September 24th, 2013
Congratulations
Very happy for you. :)
Me BS: 35
Her WW: 34
D Day 5th December 2011
Current status: Filled for divorce 23rd Jan 2012. Response from WW was not to beg for forgiveness, but deleting me from Facebook.
MovingUpward ( member #14866) posted at 1:01 AM on Tuesday, September 24th, 2013
whoo-hooo
This will be so fun
little turtle ( member #15584) posted at 1:10 AM on Tuesday, September 24th, 2013
I'm so happy for you!!!
Failure is success if we learn from it.
cayc ( member #21964) posted at 1:12 AM on Tuesday, September 24th, 2013
!!!!!!
persevere ( member #31468) posted at 1:25 AM on Tuesday, September 24th, 2013
Congrats!
DDay:2011
Status: D 2011
Remarried to a kind and wonderful man - 2017
Above all, be the heroine, not the victim. - Nora Ephron
It is our choices...that show what we truly are, far more than our abilities.
- J. K.
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