I had a post "Called looking for Revenge" on September 28th and I got a wonderful reply from MediumRare ... ...
"The fact is, morally bankrupt, weak spirited and loyalty deficient people (like your WS) bonding with low self-esteem, poaching, soulless shells of humans aren't capable of "happily ever after". The whole affair is unicorns farting rainbows with NO amount of reality involved and 100% delusional". This comment just made my day, I was having a tough one, and I will admit that I reread this a number of times, and each time it made me chuckle.
YES, it is a safe bet they affair DOWN. My WS has left us for her, and she knowingly conducted an illicit affair with him for 14+ months, and she has brought him into her 10 year old autistic son's life. What kind of a woman welcomes a cheater into her son's life, knowing he lied, withheld money from us, deceived us, and has left us shattered in a million little pieces. My WS says she doesn't argue with him, and he is looking forward to a "fresh start". Good luck with that fresh start considering your new relationship was borne outta deceit.
When you mess with another person's spouse it automatically makes you a low-life, no ifs, buts about it ... scum, lower than low, and you will get your just desserts.
Hold your head high gypsybird87, the road ahead is bumpy, but it gets better, onward and upwards