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Kelany (original poster member #34755) posted at 2:30 PM on Monday, September 30th, 2013
I love you so much. Each day I love you more and more. From the way you look at me with your beautiful blue eyes to the way you touch me. I regret what I did to you and how much I hurt you, lied and let you down. I want you in my life forever. You complete me. I love our family. I can’t wait to see you this afternoon. I miss you and love you.
Nice way to start off my Monday morning.
BS - Me
SA/FWH Him
DDay 1 - Jul 11
DDay 2 - Jul 12
R Dec 12
Former 80s Icon wishful thinking
StillStanding1 ( member #40144) posted at 2:31 PM on Monday, September 30th, 2013
very nice! 
Me: BS50s Him: WH50s
M 25 years - DD DS DS
LTA = 2+ yrs, Dday - 2/13, S for 1 year, now R
forgivingnow ( member #33549) posted at 2:45 PM on Monday, September 30th, 2013
That is wonderful !!! Very happy for you.
Me-BS 57
FWH-57
M 37yrs.
Dday 3-19-11, TT 10/2011, Full truth July 2013
Strength comes from within. You can't get it from someone or go somewhere to get it. It is already here, waiting to be used when you need it most. Believe in yours
SoVerySadNow ( member #36711) posted at 3:11 PM on Monday, September 30th, 2013
Oh how I would love a note like that.
Wonderful! 
Me:BW
Him:WH
D-day(s),after years of TT and Gaslighting was Labor Day Weekend 2012, continuing for a week after. *Dammit! More TT 3/9/13
Really trending toward D- planning about it is my "happy place" now.
RippedSoul ( member #40055) posted at 3:14 PM on Monday, September 30th, 2013
BW: 55; SLAWH: 52; M: 28 yrs
DD#1--11/30/12 (prostitute 1)
DD#2--1/29/13 (WH confessed: P1, AP, escorts 1 & 2)
DD#3--9/13 (trolling MILF site)
DD#4--10/8/13 (EA with AP cont'd)
DD: 26; DD: 24; DS: 22; DS: 20
I've never NOT edited my posts.
Blobette ( member #36519) posted at 3:16 PM on Monday, September 30th, 2013
BS (me): 51
WS: 52
Married: 27 yrs
Kids: 2
OW: Co-worker, 7 yr LTA
DD 8/1/2012, Working on R
Dreamland ( member #40488) posted at 3:19 PM on Monday, September 30th, 2013
Me-BS 50 Him-WH 47, DD17
Together since 1993, Married 19 yrs
DDay 3/12,4/12,7/12 EA-PA OW - 25 single husband chasing bastard whore
SisterMilkshake ( member #30024) posted at 3:22 PM on Monday, September 30th, 2013
BW (me) & FWH both over half a century; married several decades; children
d-day 3/10; LTA (7 years?)
"Oh, why do my actions have consequences?" ~ Homer Simpson
"She knew my one weakness: That I'm weak." ~ Homer Simpson
thecosmogirl ( member #39707) posted at 3:23 PM on Monday, September 30th, 2013
How awesome is that? 
Me: BS
Him: doesn't matter anymore
D-day 14 June 2013
I'm smart, good looking and gosh darn it, people like me!
HardenMyHeart ( member #15902) posted at 3:26 PM on Monday, September 30th, 2013
Me: BH, Her: WW, Married 40 years, Reconciled
Marathonwaseasy ( member #40674) posted at 3:47 PM on Monday, September 30th, 2013
Thanks for sharing that
Me BS, 41
Him WS, 45
EA and PA (PA for 11 months)
DDay 13/9/13
3 children - 15,12,3
WS has bipolar, no excuse...
"We're not broken, just bent. We can learn to love again."
topperoff22 ( member #40762) posted at 4:12 PM on Monday, September 30th, 2013
Geez....wish I'd get something like that. My husband is so clueless. 
I wanted to edit this to say I have gotten some really nice texts from him in the past. I am just down right now. And I think this is so great for you and so sweet!
[This message edited by topperoff22 at 10:43 PM, September 30th (Monday)]
BS - Me 36
WS - Him 35 (almost 36)
Child: son, 6; just learned one on way
DDAY - July 24, 2013 (thousands spent on ex girlfriend)
DDAY2 -Aug. 3, 2013 (proof he slept with her)
R is slow going after TT for 1 month
ontheslope ( member #40574) posted at 4:18 PM on Monday, September 30th, 2013
I get those kinds of texts from my wife from time to time. It is nice...makes me smile. But... I don't really feel anything for her, so it's hard for me to really appreciate them they way I should. It almost makes it awkward, in a way.
That being said - I hope everyone gets a text like that from someone at some point. They do lift you up.
Me: BH, 40, separated
Her: STBXWW, 41
Two girls 12 & 14
Married 12 years
Dday: July, 2009
She wants answers... I'm still trying to figure out what the questions are.
Getting to Happy ( member #35200) posted at 5:51 PM on Monday, September 30th, 2013
So sweet!
WS him
BS me DD's 26, 25' DS 23
dd1 1-1-10, dd2 Mothers Day 2011, dd3 3-12-12 Hawaii trip with ho-worker...
Never forget what is worth remembering or remember what is best forgotten.
Unknown
struggling3 ( member #34671) posted at 6:24 PM on Monday, September 30th, 2013
How wonderful for you...I'm smiling for you :))))
Me - BS 58
H - WS 60/very remorseful and supportive
discovered 4 month long EA
R - slow and steady but very optimistic
catlover50 ( member #37154) posted at 7:24 PM on Monday, September 30th, 2013
Dday -9/23/2012
Reconciled
iamsurviving ( member #23478) posted at 7:30 PM on Monday, September 30th, 2013
What a wonderful text to wake up to. You are blessed.
Me: BS (68)
Him: WH (72)
Married: 48 years
Kids: 3, Grandkids - 6
EA/PA - 6 years -
DDay - 12/16/07
DDay - 10/20/11
DDay - 8/15/12
meplusfour ( member #38958) posted at 7:43 PM on Monday, September 30th, 2013
Great way to start the week!
BW (me)42
WH 44
3 daughters, 1 son
Married 10 years, together 13
DDay 3/14/2013, four year PA
In R
"Sometimes you have to accept the fact that certain things will never go back to the way they used to be."
3kids30years ( member #38879) posted at 8:09 PM on Monday, September 30th, 2013
So happy for you - great start to the week.
BW - 52 on Dday
WH - 53 on Dday
DDay - 3/2/13 - 2:07pm 2+ year EA/PA
TT until 2016 - why do they do that?
Trust is earned, respect is given, & loyalty is demonstrated. Betrayal of any one is to loose all three.
confused615 ( member #30826) posted at 8:21 PM on Monday, September 30th, 2013
FWH has been sending me texts like that,several times a week,for the last few years.
I used to feel the same way you did,ontheslope. I felt nothing. Or I'd feel annoyed. but I didn't feel loved..nor did I feel love for him.
But,with time and a remorseful WS, those feelings can,and often do, come back.
I have learned to accept his words of love and affection..and even believe them.
Wonderful thing to wake up to,SamanthaBaker. Thank you for sharing. We need more postive stories here in the R forum.
BS(me)44
FWH 48
4 kids
M: June 2001
D-Day: 8/10/10
..that feeling you get in your stomach, when you heart's broken. It's like all the butterflies just died.
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