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TrustedHer (original poster member #23328) posted at 5:01 PM on Thursday, October 10th, 2013
From my attorney:
Please find enclosed Judge L***'s on our Post Trial Motions. She did not take any actions to correct anything other than her obvious typographical and computational errors. It is my position that this is an unreasonable Judgment that was not supported by the evidence and represents an abuse of the Court's discretion. I would advise you that an appeal of this to the Court of Appeals ... would be appropriate.
On top of this, in our last email my attorney wants me to set up a face-to-face meeting with XWW to discuss the ordered division of the farm.
FML
Take care of yourself. There's a great future out there. It won't come to you; you have to go to it.
nowiknow23 ( member #33226) posted at 5:06 PM on Thursday, October 10th, 2013
Continuing to send you strength, TH. (((((hugs)))))
You can call me NIK
And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane
woundedby2 ( member #18522) posted at 5:22 PM on Thursday, October 10th, 2013
Holy Hell. I'm so sorry, TH.
Sending hugs and strength your way. (((TH)))
In 2010 I divorced the NPD assclown who cheated on me with my best friend.
Everybody, soon or late, sits down to a banquet of consequences.
~Robert Louis Stevenson
MovingUpward ( member #14866) posted at 5:32 PM on Thursday, October 10th, 2013
Man TH, this just continues to suck. Whatever you choose to do, I send you mojo.
Newlease ( member #7767) posted at 7:39 PM on Thursday, October 10th, 2013
I'm so sorry TH - do you ever just feel like running away?
I'm not sure I would be strong enough to hang on through all this time.
Sending strength and peace.
NL
Even if you can't control the world around you, you are still the master of your own soul.
wifehad5 ( Administrator #15162) posted at 9:39 PM on Thursday, October 10th, 2013
I'm sorry you're still dealing with this TH. You are in my thoughts.
FBH - 52 FWW - 53 (BrokenRoad)2 kids 17 & 22The people you do your life with shape the life you live
Jrazz ( member #31349) posted at 9:52 PM on Thursday, October 10th, 2013
"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." - Deeply Scared's mom
devistatedmom ( member #24961) posted at 10:15 PM on Thursday, October 10th, 2013
I know your D deal sucks TH, but what do YOU want to do? Do you want to appeal?
I feel for you.
BS(me) 46, Two wonderful teens.
He is no longer my best friend. Repeat until it sticks.
WH says marriage is over: May 15, 2009.
EA#2 July 20, 2009. Legally sep: Aug 16, 2009. DIVORCED!!!! Signed Nov 23, final Dec 24, 2010, adultery listed.
Merlin ( member #30221) posted at 10:22 PM on Thursday, October 10th, 2013
Early on, some time after I filed and life got dark, one of my wise friends told me that 'divorce is forever'.
I didn't know that it was a curse with no way to break the spell.
"I never saw a wild thing sorry for itself. A bird will fall frozen dead from a bough without ever having felt sorry for itself." D. H. Lawrence
Her: WW/57 Me: BS/63 24yrs M
3 great kids, now 22, 20, 17 b,b,g
D-Day 8/14/08, D 1/13/11
inconnu ( member #24518) posted at 12:08 AM on Friday, October 11th, 2013
my attorney wants me to set up a face-to-face meeting with XWW to discuss the ordered division of the farm.
my offer still stands to wear my bitch shoes and stand behind you holding my baseball bat. just saying... 
There is no joy without gratitude. - Brené Brown
Amazonia ( member #32810) posted at 12:48 AM on Friday, October 11th, 2013
I know that the division of the farm was 1) a huge hit financially, and 2) a huge hit emotionally because of the family history, etc., BUT ... is it worth it to fight it? Despite the significance, would it be easier to write it off as a garbage removal fee and move on away from the poison?
"You yourself deserve your love and affection as much as anybody in the universe." -Buddha
"Let's face it, life is a crap shoot." -Sad in AZ
TrustedHer (original poster member #23328) posted at 1:25 AM on Friday, October 11th, 2013
Ama, I'm not fighting the division of the farm. I can't. Legally, since I foolishly put her name on the deed, it became marital property. According to the original order, it became a "gift". So now we have to split it. I don't have to like it, but I've come to accept it.
It's the rest of the settlement that is unfair, and, according to my lawyer, contrary to the statute.
I'll talk to him on Tuesday, find out how much it will cost to appeal, and maybe get a second opinion before I move forward.
Take care of yourself. There's a great future out there. It won't come to you; you have to go to it.
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