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atsenaotie ( member #27650) posted at 2:47 PM on Wednesday, October 16th, 2013
Any BSs here think that their WS justifies their LTA to the extent that they believe we (BSs) got what we deserved?
She did initially (prior to dday and about a year after). A few times after dday she told me that she was glad I found the A, because my having to forgive her for having sex with her boss, her coworker, another coworker, and her BIL made it easier for her to forgive me for being such an Ass all the M. 
At least her 1st two APs were intentional, not the result of any slippery slopes.
Since she has been doing the IC and working on her stuff she sees more that she was the problem in the M, not me so much.
LTA FBS
dday 10.5.09
Divorced
Ashland13 ( member #38378) posted at 2:55 PM on Wednesday, October 16th, 2013
He blamed every problem he ever had on me and then he blamed his cheating on me, too.
Stores resentments like acorns instead of talking about them and now is building fresh, new ones to add and spits them out at me electronically. Passive aggressive, anyone?
He told me in order to stop hurting me he had to leave me. ???? Because I had depression I was working on but it was from life circumstances.
He is still finding things for me to be hurt by-it's not over by a long shot, even though he is treated very well.
Ashland 13
A person is a person, no matter how small. -Dr. Suess
Perserverance and spirit have done wonders in all ages.
-George Washington
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