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Reconciliation :
facebook om & obs - to block or not?

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sunshine226 ( member #38851) posted at 1:28 PM on Tuesday, October 22nd, 2013

if they are blocked, they cannot see anything you post, or comment on on a mutual friend just as you will not be able to see anything of theirs

I am very guarded over what I post in fb just in case, and when i see that a friend on my list has added her, I delete them from my list, they have shown me that they have no respect for me or my family, no compassion for what WH put us through

SIL came to me about adding her and I told her it was up to her but just know that if she did, she would be deleted from mine, she sent a msg to our son and he told her how he felt, she told him that he means more to her than OW and has not added her

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DDay 1/1/2012, common law for 22 1/2 years when he began A in September 2011
Status: moving on without him

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painfulpast ( member #41038) posted at 7:59 PM on Tuesday, October 22nd, 2013

I have blocked OW, but not OBS. I informed him of the EA as soon as I was able to find him, and I did it through FB. Of course, we ended up exchanging email addresses to be able to send 'proof' to each other, but email addresses can change. I would prefer, should he learn of some new information, or new contact, that he can easily find me.

This is what is right for me. Others will do what is right for them. I do recommend blocking OW. It really eases the temptation to spy on her FB page as once you 'unblock' you have to wait 48 hours to reblock someone.

DDay - 12/2010
Fully R'd - I love my husband

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