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Divorce/Separation :
Summons and new beginnings

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 kg201 (original poster member #40173) posted at 6:05 PM on Tuesday, October 29th, 2013

So the last few days have been a combination of two steps forward. My wife was told that she is receiving the divorce summons. This has led to various reactions, one of which is her emailing my parents and sister accusing them of hurting the children by alienating her parents and not see them as part of the family after she dies. Strange that she took this on with my family instead of me.

Step two was two different dates I had on Sunday. I really had fun on the first one. Being able to enjoy myself and be myself with someone else was very nice.

Two steps forward....waiting for the one step back.

Me: BH, 40
Her: Ms. Daisy
Together 18 years, married 15+
LTA 3.5 years, living together
Dday: 7/28/13
Ds17, DS12, DD12
Divorced! 2/24/2015
Apology. You keep using that word. I do not think it means what you think it means.

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jo2love ( member #31528) posted at 10:50 PM on Tuesday, October 29th, 2013

Two steps forward....waiting for the one step back.

Hopefully, no steps back. If there is one....at least you are moving forward. Closer and closer to a great nb.

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DefeatedDad ( member #41026) posted at 11:01 PM on Tuesday, October 29th, 2013

Fantastic. It is always heartening to see a fellow BS staying strong and moving on with his/her life.

Did you tell her she was going to be served or did your lawyer?

Me - BS 46
Wife - WS 44
Son 13, Daughter 17
Married 22 years
D-day May 16, 2012
TT D-Day 2 9/25/17
TT D-Day 3 1/02/14

Divorcing her sorry a--.

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 kg201 (original poster member #40173) posted at 5:05 PM on Wednesday, October 30th, 2013

I tried to call her and tell her over the phone, since in person it is hard for us to communicate about anything. This didn't work. She ended up forcing me to text her that I had filed. She has asked me for a week before being served so she can decide on a lawyer, and then she will accept the summons through the lawyer. I agreed because I would rather not have the constable serve her in front of the children. She has increased her emails to my family demanding that they talk to her about their alienation of her parents, and how it is hurtful to the kids. I asked her to stop harassing my parents, but she continues...she emailed them without CCing me. It's really odd, but I'm not surprised by much anymore.

Me: BH, 40
Her: Ms. Daisy
Together 18 years, married 15+
LTA 3.5 years, living together
Dday: 7/28/13
Ds17, DS12, DD12
Divorced! 2/24/2015
Apology. You keep using that word. I do not think it means what you think it means.

posts: 1155   ·   registered: Aug. 4th, 2013
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