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Karmita (original poster member #40183) posted at 8:42 PM on Wednesday, October 30th, 2013
What a difference NC makes. I feel lighter, less anxious, and instead of being reactionary to my soon to ex husband I've been reclaiming myself.
I was so scared to let go and I did it with my eyes closed and holding my breath. Kind of like bungee jumping with a safety line and all you have is faith you'll land safely.
Letting go it scary but it's wonderful on the other side when you do.
Life too short to be married to a vampire cheater who sucks away at your soul.
I'm free and I love me.
Gemini71 ( member #40115) posted at 8:44 PM on Wednesday, October 30th, 2013
Congratulations! Sounds like you've taken the first step toward healing.
DSs 21, 16, 12
About my Ex:
IDK
IDC
IDGAF
Double Betrayal D-Day 7/26/2013
Divorced 11/18/2014
Karmita (original poster member #40183) posted at 9:01 PM on Wednesday, October 30th, 2013
Thank you Gemini71
The first steps are the hardest but it gets easier with each step I take.
sisoon ( Moderator #31240) posted at 9:33 PM on Wednesday, October 30th, 2013
Sure sounds like you made the right decision for yourself. Congratulations!
fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex apDDay - 12/22/2010Recover'd and R'edYou don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.
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