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BAB61 ( member #41181) posted at 4:35 AM on Friday, November 1st, 2013
I'm so, so sorry. Having children together really mucks up the waters, doesn't it? I too, would be GONE if it wasn't for the kids. I agree that the first thing you should do is check with a lawyer. Since you are not married, she may not have as many rights as you may think. Second you should at the very least tell her you are having second thoughts about the marriage and you think you should postpone. DON'T go through with a marriage when you already have evidence of an A! imho you should confront her. Just my opinion of course. As far as not having friends, make some. Take the kids to a local park and start up a convo with other parents. This is a good place for support about the status of your r-ship but having a live person to talk to .. so much better. Be careful tho, pick people that will not be fodder for her to use against you. fwiw, you need to love yourself .... and value yourself.
Boss A** B*tch
BS/52 Me, STBXpos/56, dd's 16&14
1st D-day 10/19/2013 EA/PA
2nd D-day 12/7/2013 LTA/Rendezvous
S 12/7/2013 No-fault state, 6 mo S, counting down the days.
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