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maddmurph (original poster member #40940) posted at 2:08 PM on Friday, November 1st, 2013
So I posted about our blow out on Wednesday. Last night she started wearing her rings again. Has them on today too. She is at her IC appointment. She made an appointment to get tested. She has hugged me. We are talking, just small talk but still. I know it's a drop in the bucket, but could this be a crack in her armor?
I know, I know it's early, don't read too much into it, don't get your hopes up. Keep up the 180 and do things for yourself. I'm going to hockey game with my buddy and our sons tonight. Not something I would have normally done, so don't worry. Just want to level check what's going on.
Me - BS, 33
Her - WW, 33
DS 7, DD 3
Shocked2believe ( member #41010) posted at 2:47 PM on Friday, November 1st, 2013
I don't want to assume anything about anyone but I've read so much in the last month and I hate not being able to to put a positive soon on things at the moment. Please guard yourself from being too elated as it can turn on you at any moment. Depending on the circumstances, WS see-saw between being really remorseful to full on awful. It is a positive but don't be disappointed if it turns again. This is only my opinion of course. I truly hope you are not disappointed though. ((Hugs))
Me:BS Married 15 years
Him: WH - EA/PA with now married OW
'If you come into my life, the door is open; If you leave my life, the door is open; Just one request, don't stand in the doorway and block the traffic"
justjim ( member #41150) posted at 2:56 PM on Friday, November 1st, 2013
Did you react or show her that you noticed the rings?
When I failed to react to mine taking hers off yesterday, she went into full on crazy bitch mode for the last 24 hours.
Enjoy the hockey game and time with your buddies. It will be a great escape.
*Lights up another cyber cigar*
*exhales a big cloud of cyber smoke in my WWs general direction*
Follow your BRAIN.
Your HEART is stupid as shit.
maddmurph (original poster member #40940) posted at 3:07 PM on Friday, November 1st, 2013
I didn't say anything about the rings, and I'm not wearing mine. I'm waiting for her to bring it up. I'm guessing at the latest it will be in MC on Thursday.
Me - BS, 33
Her - WW, 33
DS 7, DD 3
justjim ( member #41150) posted at 3:10 PM on Friday, November 1st, 2013
Follow your BRAIN.
Your HEART is stupid as shit.
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