We have a new circle of friends since the A.
I love them, they are fun to hang out with and we do a lot of group activities and trips. I find our group a safe place to socialize.
Two years ago two of the couples went camping and met "John and Susie". For some reason they both fell in love with this couple and introduced them to the group. They have now become part of our group and are included in everything. They are "one of us".
There is something that has screamed at me about John since I met him. I have kept my distance with the pair because I think there is something there I just can't put my finger on. I don't like his hugs and I think he is not nice to Susie.We do not participate with them in any individual activities.
Last night we are all out. One of the wives "Angi" is tired and says it's gonna be an early night for them. She is at the table, quiet, not really socializing.
Last minute John and Susie decide to show and I feel like I am watching a movie in slow motion...Angi jumps up, hugs John, says hi to Susie and becomes the life of the party, animated, batting her eyes at John.Spends the majority of the evening in deep flirty conversation with him.
And I can't move...I see this train barreling down the tracks and I instantly know what's going on.
I am pissed. Really pissed.
I talked to H about it and we are not sure where to go next. I want to pull Angi over and beat the shit out of her and kick John in the ass.
I have never seen this between them before, but I know what it feels like...
We are supposed to go to Angi's house and watch the game tomorrow with her and her hubby. I want to talk to her, but H and I have kept our distance emotionally with people. We don't like drama, don't want to be in it and definitely do not want to start any. I feel as though I need to support her in her marriage and her husband needs to know that something is off too.
It's quacking so loud, I know it's a duck. But I don't have proof. If it's just begun though I don't want there to become an opportunity for them to make proof KWIM?
Sigh, I think I am just sad and angry that people I thought were so grounded could be shaken so easily.