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Reconciliation :
Being happy that I didn't give up.

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 LearnToLoveAgain (original poster new member #40950) posted at 2:25 AM on Thursday, November 7th, 2013

So it's been a little over 3 months since my fWS "ONS" (he didn't sleep with the girl but things went to far). It's been hell. Lots of tears and anger and everything in between. I'm still hurt but everyday is better. He's doing everything right. He's remorseful he cries with me holds me and takes time out of his busy work day to call me. Makes sure I'm ok and asks if I need anything or if I need to talk. Our MC sessions are better an I'm actually happy again. I know everyone's situation is different but hold on to hope and love. Things really do get better!!

Me-BS
Him-fWS
DDay 8/03/13 husband told me not even 24 hours after it happened.

Almost ONS actual sex never took place
Currently in R and doing great.

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iwillNOT ( member #40605) posted at 3:08 AM on Thursday, November 7th, 2013

I'm so happy for you! Sounds like you and your fWS are finding your way through. Keep moving forward!

Holding onto hope and love...I like the sound of that.

Thank you for sharing

Me: BS, 46
Him: WH, 47
Together 24 years
4 amazing kids
Dday#1 2004, 3 years after EA/PA co-worker MOW
Dday#2 8-6-13, 13 months EA/9months PA with co-worker MOW - caught not confessed
Choosing myself daily and R almost every

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HardenMyHeart ( member #15902) posted at 4:04 AM on Thursday, November 7th, 2013

Me: BH, Her: WW, Married 40 years, Reconciled

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chick ( member #41073) posted at 8:28 AM on Thursday, November 7th, 2013

Very happy for you, great to hear and I hope it just keeps getting better

Me - 32
Him - 32
D-Day - 6th Oct 2013
He had a ONS on 23rd Sept 2013

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 LearnToLoveAgain (original poster new member #40950) posted at 5:13 PM on Friday, November 8th, 2013

Thank you everyone!

Me-BS
Him-fWS
DDay 8/03/13 husband told me not even 24 hours after it happened.

Almost ONS actual sex never took place
Currently in R and doing great.

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StillStanding1 ( member #40144) posted at 7:24 PM on Friday, November 8th, 2013

Love hearing good news !!! Good for you!

Me: BS50s Him: WH50s
M 25 years - DD DS DS
LTA = 2+ yrs, Dday - 2/13, S for 1 year, now R

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