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caregiver9000 (original poster member #28622) posted at 3:30 PM on Saturday, November 9th, 2013
I am not particularly nervous or worried. I am in fact pretty hopeful?
anyway... Can I please have some mojo for a nice, pleasant lunch date today! 
A little spark, and some hand holding would be welcomed too.
That is all. Thanks in advance!!
PS. I hope there is a MUCH to share later. 
The good stuff, not the OMG he is a crazy psycho stuff! (just to clarify)
Me: fortysomething, independent, happy,
XH "Stretch" (and Skew!) ;)
two kids, teens. Old enough I am truly NO CONTACT w/ NPD zebraduck
S 5/2010
D 12/2012
fireproof ( member #36126) posted at 3:32 PM on Saturday, November 9th, 2013
Good luck and have fun! 
Nature_Girl ( member #32554) posted at 3:37 PM on Saturday, November 9th, 2013
Ohmygosh! Mo-mo-mo-mojo, baby!
Me = BS
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - DIVORCED!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wJgjyDFfJuU
jo2love ( member #31528) posted at 3:40 PM on Saturday, November 9th, 2013
Sending mojo. I hope you have a great time!
cmego ( member #30346) posted at 3:44 PM on Saturday, November 9th, 2013
me...BS, 46 years old.
Divorced
inconnu ( member #24518) posted at 4:00 PM on Saturday, November 9th, 2013
lots of mojo headed your way!
There is no joy without gratitude. - Brené Brown
nowiknow23 ( member #33226) posted at 4:17 PM on Saturday, November 9th, 2013
Have fun, honey!
You can call me NIK
And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane
better4me ( member #30341) posted at 6:22 PM on Saturday, November 9th, 2013
mojo being sent while the date is occurring (maybe that makes the mojo better?)!
DDay 11/17/2010 BW:58
Happily remarried!
wildbananas ( member #10552) posted at 7:25 PM on Saturday, November 9th, 2013
Mojo too!
Travel light, live light, spread the light, be the light. ~ Yogi Bhajan
tesla ( member #34697) posted at 8:19 PM on Saturday, November 9th, 2013
Yay! Excited for you and mojo sent!!
"Thou art the son and heir of a mongrel bitch." --King Lear
Thelastknight ( member #21851) posted at 9:04 PM on Saturday, November 9th, 2013
Just enjoy the lunch, the company is a bonus when on a date!!!
"Pain is weakness leaving the body"
Reformed BS 39 xWW 34
Two kids 5 and 2
PhoenixRisen ( member #35912) posted at 11:08 PM on Saturday, November 9th, 2013
I'm late to chime in so I'm wishing you retroactive mojo!!!
- how did it go?
caregiver9000 (original poster member #28622) posted at 11:57 PM on Saturday, November 9th, 2013
It was fine. Unfortunately, his brand of cigarette triggered a migraine. I knew it as soon as I walked in. He didn't smoke at all around me, but his jacket smelled strongly of the smoke.
He was pleasant and very understanding. He drove A LONG way to make the meet. I feel "sorry" that it did not go better. I would likely see him again, but it will be on a different level than what I know he was hoping for.
I sometimes think I date to remind myself why I LOVE being single. I am already in pjs, have SI up for reading, and the dvr is all mine for the evening.
Thanks for the mojo. SI is always the perfect date. 
Me: fortysomething, independent, happy,
XH "Stretch" (and Skew!) ;)
two kids, teens. Old enough I am truly NO CONTACT w/ NPD zebraduck
S 5/2010
D 12/2012
Kajem ( member #36134) posted at 1:42 AM on Sunday, November 10th, 2013
I'm glad your home and enjoying your evening. I hope the migraine is short-lived.
Hugs,
K
I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - UnknownRelationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.
tesla ( member #34697) posted at 1:06 PM on Sunday, November 10th, 2013
well that's a bummer about the cigarrette smoke.
But I know what you mean about being reminded that single life has many advantages.
"Thou art the son and heir of a mongrel bitch." --King Lear
woundedby2 ( member #18522) posted at 1:13 AM on Monday, November 11th, 2013
Well, bummer.
I hope your headache is fading. Enjoy your evening!
In 2010 I divorced the NPD assclown who cheated on me with my best friend.
Everybody, soon or late, sits down to a banquet of consequences.
~Robert Louis Stevenson
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